Should I care?

[Groupie_]

I would've up and left the moment I found out.

 

[Lyyynnnchy]

Seriously, are you a man? Do you have an ounce of self respect, honour, dignity and self worth? How do you sleep at night next to the woman who betrayed your trust and deflowered her body with another man? How can you stay with a vile immoral woman who broke the sacred vows of marriage?

Be a man and respect yourself. Ditch this woman, so you can look at the man without shying away like a coward. Not only are you married to a questionable tacky woman but a murderer who soul has been blacken by her actions which reeks of dishonestly and cruelty. You didn’t marry a woman but Lucifer himself

wow wtf is this

 

[The Dice Man]

Seriously, are you a man? Do you have an ounce of self respect, honour, dignity and self worth? How do you sleep at night next to the woman who betrayed your trust and deflowered her body with another man? How can you stay with a vile immoral woman who broke the sacred vows of marriage?

Be a man and respect yourself. Ditch this woman, so you can look at the man without shying away like a coward. Not only are you married to a questionable tacky woman but a murderer who soul has been blacken by her actions which reeks of dishonestly and cruelty. You didn’t marry a woman but Lucifer himself

Are you one of those 'persons' who have multiple wives but don't let them show their faces in public?

 

[Black Diamond]

Does the fact she got pregnant make the one night stand worse? The act is still the same, after all.

 

[mantis]

wow wtf is this

I think his username says it all really.

 

[Dont be a lemon]

mantis how did you react when your spouse cheated on you?

 

[Catswin12]

Wyndham Vale special..

 

[Tassieboy]

Well your decision to terminate the baby is an absolute tragedy.

If you had manned you would have either ditched the wife or raised the child. Your actions made a phat statement, resulting in the loss of a human life who today would have been a beautiful newborn child. Stop thinking about yourself and your relationship and learn to appreciate the value of human life.

You wouldn't be a religious cracker by any chance?

 

[Johnny619]

Did she tell you about the one night stand before or after she found out she was knocked up? If after, chances are she is still doing it!! but

 

[Sebastian Balboa]

Sorry to be blunt, but a woman just does not decide one night she will spread her legs for a man that is not her 17-year husband.
Her relationship with you 'died' somewhat way before that night.
From my experience, had she not gotten pregnant, you would have been none the wiser.

Having said all that, if you can see that your marriage can be saved, and that she's genuinely disgusted with herself, then it's worth a shot at making it work...and you will become stronger in the process.

My genuine regret in my situation is I will now not grow old with the one I fell in love with in my early 20s.
I do rejoice in sharing almost 20 years of life -- our 20s and 30s -- with my now ex.
But right now, I am starting all over again, and I'm quietly terrified.

 

[skilts]

Well, that's it then. I saw it on BigFooty. Anyone who doesn't conduct their life in the way that best suits me is an immoral arseh*le. Here come de judge.

 

[Hand]

She committed adultery.. I'd get a divorce, but it's always best to put the kids first. (says my mum).

 

[Catsmaninamerica]

Have you tried hitting her?

 

[Lord_Flashheart]

I am sticking around for the gif

Brilliant

Dammit my iPad doesn't play gifs in tapatalk, all I see is Bart at a counter,

 

[Lord_Flashheart]

I applaud your ability to stick it out, it must tear at you when you look at her sometimes. If you are happy to go on with it then just let her talk if need be and listen. I couldn't do it.

 

[TubbsFarquhar]

Well your decision to terminate the baby is an absolute tragedy.

If you had manned you would have either ditched the wife or raised the child. Your actions made a phat statement, resulting in the loss of a human life who today would have been a beautiful newborn child. Stop thinking about yourself and your relationship and learn to appreciate the value of human life.

Is this a joke? Look at your username ffs!

 

[SugarShane]

Sorry to be blunt, but a woman just does not decide one night she will spread her legs for a man that is not her 17-year husband.
Her relationship with you 'died' somewhat way before that night.
From my experience, had she not gotten pregnant, you would have been none the wiser.

For sure. It was probably "just a one night stand" because that's the only one there was evidence of. OP is either a good bloke or a sucker, i'm leaning towards the latter. I wouldn't have stuck around.

 

[Catsmaninamerica]

Good on ya mate for choosing to love and forgive. You're a better man than most. That said, you can program her mobile phone so you can GPS track her at ALL times. I'd be doing that from now on.... A tiny bug in an earing might not go astray either.

 

[LosBeatles]

I honestly would not give a toss. Think of any sadness she goes through as the square up for what you went through. Do something fun that day like go carting to show that not a single care is given

 

[Sebastian Balboa]

This might be a helpful read:

How to handle the aftermath of infidelity
http://news.com.au/lifestyle/relati...h-of-infidelity/story-fnet09p2-1226500858498=

 

[Tigger Please!]

I've been 'fixed' lol

And yes it was just a one night stand, when she told me, she was almost certain that we were over, I took a few days to weigh it all up

my belated response:
did the one night stand happened whilst you were split? if so, i don't really see it as such a big deal, you weren't together after all and especially if it looked certain that you two were over.
as for the rest of the situation: you've obviously thought long-and-hard about getting back together and she has obviously shown you something in the way of remorse and contrition which has led you open yourself up to loving and trusting her again; good on you.
as much as you may be suffering on this sad day, i'd imagine she'd be feeling 100x worse, so try and be considerate and reassuring towards her.
it sounds like it's been a tough 12 months for you guys and i'm sure there is still some painful residual feelings from the experience but, if you both a fair dinkum about having a fresh start and making a go of it, then there's no reason why that pain won't dissipate in time.

 

[Boultzboi]

I meant that she was certain that I would leave her when she told me, and tbh I was very close to leaving. I still have lingering thoughts bout it all, but I guess that just goes with the territory, hopefully one day they will pass

 

[checkraiseulite]

How's teh sex now?

 

[LosBeatles]

The sex should be pretty good. You can just passionately rage smash her every night