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Over the last few weeks that I have been on here, I have seen some great things on this site, the jokes, the banter, the awesome boards and loads of fun the majority of people have on here which is great!! I have talked to some great people as a result of BigFooty, made some great friends on msn and look forward to meeting lots of great people as well. :):)

However, I am very worried about some of the abuse levelled at certain people publically on this site which as far as I'm concerned is absolute rubbish and should be kept private on either emails or msn or pm's.

I have recently learned of the abuse and sh*t levelled at TheMase which as far as I'm concerned is simply not called for. I am really disappointed that a good mate of mine should be made to feel unwelcome here by a group of young teenage girls (you know who you are!! ;)) who have very little compassion or understanding for anyone else but themselves!! ;)

Now, there is 2 ways this can go.

1.) I for one hope that if anyone has an issue or problem with someone, you have the decency to talk in private with that person instead of gossip and "slag" off to others. That gets you nowhere and can only result in a negative outcome and fill these boards with crap that even the writers of "Days Of Our Lives" or "The Young And The Restless" would be greatful to have thought up of to use!!

OR

2.) I will get abusive replies below.


Either way, the most important thing to me, (and would be the case with 95% of others on here) is what friends think & believe. Anyone who has talked to me or knows me, knows what I'm really like and at the end of the day, that is what counts.

Luke, I hope you read this and understand that regardess of what you've done in your past, (true or not true) is nobody's business but your own and who you trust to confide in. Your true friends (and most important people) will show understanding and support regardless, and those people who dont arent worth worrying about!! Simple!! ;)

My final thought is this... "in life people are going to make mistakes and people will get hurt. Nobody deliberately sets out to do this, it just happens sometimes and we as individuals need to be able to deal with that."

Thank you for reading this post everyone.

SeinDude
 
Not to condone what TheMase apparantly did, I just want to say that this whole issue should not be talked about on a public forum like this. Basically, Mase - If you are going, you are going. No need to come on here and be pissed off at everyone.

Girls - I know that what he apparantly has done is bad ****, but the best thing you can do for yourselves is move on and dont bring it up anymore. I know it sounds hard, a couple of months ago I was involved in a terrible breakup, and I got over it even though i felt like I wouldn't. These things are never easy. Just forget about it and move on.

Everyone else, it is not our place to be saying stuff on here or behind these people's backs, this is a personal issue between the people involved and i'm sure they don't need us making comments. I might be as guilty as the next person but I am going to stop now. Let them move on or sort it out. Let's just put this whole thing behind us, eh BigFooty?
 

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Originally posted by daicos4ever
Let's just put this whole thing behind us, eh BigFooty?
Good suggestion Daics. I don't know the 'bad' thing that The Mase did. I have never ever chatted to The Mase, but I think he is as entitled to use Bigfooty as anyone else is. To me, his decision to leave Bigfooty is disappointing because it is showing that these people are getting to him and he has given in. If he chooses to or not to return is of course his decision.

I've never met anyone from bigfooty. However, there are plenty of people on bigfooty who seem decent enough and we are all here because we have one thing in common - WE LOVE THE FOOTY. With the season only a fortnight away let's get on with talking about the game. Good luck to your team for 2002.
 
Originally posted by SeinDude
Over the last few weeks that I have been on here, I have seen some great things on this site, the jokes, the banter, the awesome boards and loads of fun the majority of people have on here which is great!! I have talked to some great people as a result of BigFooty, made some great friends on msn and look forward to meeting lots of great people as well. :):)

Well said, i agree.

However, I am very worried about some of the abuse levelled at certain people publically on this site which as far as I'm concerned is absolute rubbish and should be kept private on either emails or msn or pm's.

In your opinion its rubbish...in other peoples eyes it is not and is hurtful and truthful.

I have recently learned of the abuse and sh*t levelled at TheMase which as far as I'm concerned is simply not called for. I am really disappointed that a good mate of mine should be made to feel unwelcome here by a group of young teenage girls (you know who you are!! ;)) who have very little compassion or understanding for anyone else but themselves!! ;)

I disagree 100% Maybe your good mate should watch what he says to certain (many) young teenage girls in the future.

1.) I for one hope that if anyone has an issue or problem with someone, you have the decency to talk in private with that person instead of gossip and "slag" off to others. That gets you nowhere and can only result in a negative outcome and fill these boards with crap that even the writers of "Days Of Our Lives" or "The Young And The Restless" would be greatful to have thought up of to use!!

i agree that certain things should be dealt with in private.

2.) I will get abusive replies below.

Your a dikhead?? :confused:

Luke, I hope you read this and understand that regardess of what you've done in your past, (true or not true) is nobody's business but your own

Not when it involves and has affected other people....then it is not just his own business.

My final thought is this... "in life people are going to make mistakes and people will get hurt. Nobody deliberately sets out to do this, it just happens sometimes and we as individuals need to be able to deal with that."

People also should not run away from problems when they arise!
 
Originally posted by footyman

Good suggestion Daics. I don't know the 'bad' thing that The Mase did. I have never ever chatted to The Mase, but I think he is as entitled to use Bigfooty as anyone else is. To me, his decision to leave Bigfooty is disappointing because it is showing that these people are getting to him and he has given in. If he chooses to or not to return is of course his decision.

I've never met anyone from bigfooty. However, there are plenty of people on bigfooty who seem decent enough and we are all here because we have one thing in common - WE LOVE THE FOOTY. With the season only a fortnight away let's get on with talking about the game. Good luck to your team for 2002.

footyman,

You are absolutely spot on with your thoughts... couldnt agree with you more. :)

Cheers!! :)
SeinDude
 
Re: Re: Something to think about...

Originally posted by Macca19

Not when it involves and has affected other people....then it is not just his own business.

True, but for those of us that it does involve, it's only our business and no-one else's - it shouldn't even be discussed on these boards. Personally, I'd rather this be kept off the boards and it stay between those it concerns. As it involves me, I'd much rather everyone would just shut up and let the people involved deal with it. This sort of crap that's all over the boards just isn't necessary.

Oh, and SeinDude - well said!!!
 
Why not just post what happened and then have a poll about it.

Then we can all judge

Isn't that what you guys do????????


My suspisciion is that Mase has been sleeping with Wayne Carey and hasn't told his flock of teenage devotees about it

Shame on you Mase.


Seriously though - all the backslapping has suddenly turned into abuse.

Moral of the story - don't live your life on the intenet. There's a big wild world out there to touch and feel and smell and hear and see.

Don't use the Net as a substitute.

Cheers
 
until now, i don't think i have said anything slightly offensive to him, as you said i have kept it very private... i don't know why i started ot say things now...
but i'm sorry if i've offended... i have my reasons, but like you said... they are private
 
Originally posted by Jars458

Moral of the story - don't live your life on the intenet. There's a big wild world out there to touch and feel and smell and hear and see.

Don't use the Net as a substitute.

The net is not a substitute. It's simply just something else that I, and many others, do. You know, just because we have issues online doesn't mean we have no life offline.
 

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