Society & Culture The BigFooty Guide to getting the non-gender specific person of Your Desire (Part 8)

[MWPP]

Send a dick pic, if she likes it you're good to go, if not it was never meant to be.

Either way you're out of the freind zone

Urgh, I hope the meant that it was a joke
It would depend on the girl, but personally neither I nor my friends like dick pics, especially not in this sort of context
Unsolicited dick pics are the worst (a warning /heads up is common courtesy )
Besides - it sounds like he has liked her for years so wouldn't just be after a fling ....
(And , I don't care if this makes me sound asexual or homosexual , but dick pics really aren't as attractive as most guys seem to think )

 

[DemonTim]

Ah right, I see where you're coming from and agree.

I was more meaning that a friend zone can exist without it being a negative thing - I have a lot of female friends that I have no sexual or romantic interest in (and vice versa). But yeah, I think we were just looking at it from different angles.

I consider that just as people who are friends lol

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

I consider that just as people who are friends lol

Me too, hence the confusion as to how it was a myth!

I'm guessing people that say they're in the friend zone aren't actually friends at all then...so maybe it is a myth.

I don't know, s**t has changed since I was on the market - seems far more complicated.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

dick pics are hideeouuusssss
at least put a bow tie on it or something to dress it up a bit

 

[Doss]

I don't get the concept of them. I have never felt compelled to take a picture of my penis and send it to anyone, and I don't think I ever would.

 

[craigos]

(And , I don't care if this makes me sound asexual or homosexual , but dick pics really aren't as attractive as most guys seem to think )

Have inboxed you, let me know what you think.

 

[MWPP]

Have inboxed you, let me know what you think.

 

[TheWoodenSlug]

Have inboxed you, let me know what you think.

I think you sent that to the wrong person. But very impressive, nonetheless.

 

[craigos]

I think you sent that to the wrong person. But very impressive, nonetheless.

I grew it myself

 

[gaskin]

 

[IKnowtheDog]

Apparently jumping into croc infested rivers is the hip thing today

 

[Howard Littlejohn]

What sort of line do people draw when 'going on the chase' compared to thinking she's just not interested and giving up?

In my case it easy. They aren't interested. Gave up 20 years ago. 100% confident I have missed zero opportunities.

 

[Perth gal]

In my case it easy. They aren't interested. Gave up 20 years ago. 100% confident I have missed zero opportunities.

I think this is bullshit. If you are confident and happy in your skin eventually someone will come along and like you for you.

 

[Perth gal]

I've had lots of guys that i liked that didn't feel the same way. Stuff them
Their loss. I'll meet someone one day and they'll be lucky to get me.

 

[BEaston]

I think this is bullshit. If you are confident and happy in your skin eventually someone will come along and like you for you.

You call his post bullshit but then in your second sentence you sound like you're agreeing?

 

[Perth gal]

You call his post bullshit but then in your second sentence you sound like you're agreeing?

What I'm trying to say is that if you like someone let them know. Dont just do nothing about it. You know the old saying if you don't askthe answer will always be no.

 

[BEaston]

Right. Maybe I misinterpreted what Howard Littlejohn was saying.

 

[Perth gal]

Right. Maybe I misinterpreted what Howard Littlejohn was saying.

I just don't think you should give up. That's all. Always be hopeful and open. Not desperate. Live your life and be happy and maybe someone will find you.

 

[BEaston]

I just don't think you should give up. That's all. Always be hopeful and open. Not desperate. Live your life and be happy and maybe someone will find you.

Yeah I agree.

 

[RU_]

Need thoughts, this girl and I message each other every day, generally a couple during the day and for a few hours each night. Had a bit of banter for the last couple of weeks where I've been consistently asking to take her to dinner and tonight it came up again; her reply was "You can take me to dinner then, but only as friends". I don't know whether this is a win or not, surely theres some interest since she messages me every day.

 

[getthefooty]

Need thoughts, this girl and I message each other every day, generally a couple during the day and for a few hours each night. Had a bit of banter for the last couple of weeks where I've been consistently asking to take her to dinner and tonight it came up again; her reply was "You can take me to dinner then, but only as friends". I don't know whether this is a win or not, surely theres some interest since she messages me every day.

Sorry, that's a loss. You've been friend zoned.

 

[GreyCrow]

Need thoughts, this girl and I message each other every day, generally a couple during the day and for a few hours each night. Had a bit of banter for the last couple of weeks where I've been consistently asking to take her to dinner and tonight it came up again; her reply was "You can take me to dinner then, but only as friends". I don't know whether this is a win or not, surely theres some interest since she messages me every day.

She immediately drew a line you will never cross.

 

[RU_]

I'm going to prove you two wrong.

 

[perthblue]

Need thoughts, this girl and I message each other every day, generally a couple during the day and for a few hours each night. Had a bit of banter for the last couple of weeks where I've been consistently asking to take her to dinner and tonight it came up again; her reply was "You can take me to dinner then, but only as friends". I don't know whether this is a win or not, surely theres some interest since she messages me every day.

Have any of her texts started with "hey you" ?

 

[HirdyLannister]

I'm going to prove you two wrong.

I look forward to an update in the awkward story thread!