The Soap opera dilemma

[gothedons]

I have a typical, cliche dilemma, fallen for a chick who is one of my best friends and have no idea wat to do about it... do i tell her and hopw she feels the same way? or leave it and perhaps regret it later? we are really close and i dunno if she likes me the same way... anyone got any serious advice? (please dont make this in to a thread bagging me for being a softy)

 

[mantis]

Tell her how you feel, but make sure that you tell her that if she doesn't feel the sane way, that it's OK & you still want to stay friends.

 

[metallichris]

Same position mate. It's happened before though, last time I told her how I felt all for nothing, things got a bit awkward but we grew over it and are still really good friends. Now those feelings have come back for me, but I've decided I'm just going to leave things as they are and if something comes up then woot!

Your friend may welcome your feelings much differently than mine did, obviously they're not the same person. Your choice, but I'm sure the fact that you two are so close would give you all hope for things going back to normal if she doesn't feel the same way.

 

[Monkster]

before you do anything make sure she isn't your long lost (evil) twin sister!

 

[Murray]

I have a typical, cliche dilemma, fallen for a chick who is one of my best friends and have no idea wat to do about it... do i tell her and hopw she feels the same way? or leave it and perhaps regret it later? we are really close and i dunno if she likes me the same way... anyone got any serious advice? (please dont make this in to a thread bagging me for being a softy)

So you don't have her now.

If you tell her and she says no.

Then you don't have her now.


Nothing lost

 

[Tormented Tiger]

The best way to go about this is to get her to come to your place. Tell her you just found out the girl you were striking a relationship up with has just died. Tell her you need a drink a poor her one, then two, then three,etc,etc. When you are both half ********ed make a move on her. If she freaks out you know where you stand. If something happens and she regrets it in the morning atleast you have that notch on your belt. The other thing that could happen is you become a couple. You only live once.

 

[La Dispute]

Go for the kill

Dinosaur

 

[crudbucket]

Tell her how you feel, but make sure that you tell her that if she doesn't feel the sane way, that it's OK & you still want to stay friends.

And if she's a complete dipstick, what then ?

 

[La Dispute]

And if she's a complete dipstick, what then ?

If she rejects you, run fast and dont stop to pat the kitty

 

[Lance Uppercut]

You softy!!!!!!!

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