Computers & Internet Tinder Part Deux

[akkaps]

Can I get an arranged marriage?

I know Indians get a bad rep on tinder, Ive seen so many profiles say no Indians/Pakistanis etc on their profiles which is harsh

I've tried those I'm getting more confident but confidence can't fix ugly sadly

I'm sure if you ask your parents, they'd be able to help you look around their friends of friends if there is any girl around your age. Yeah, we do get a bad rep. The annoying thing is that I was born in Melbourne, I have an Aussie accent. I'm uncomfortable going up to girls. I do better with a few drinks in me.

It's good that confidence is growing, meeting people in person and becoming friends first might be an option

 

[craigos]

I'm an accounts receivable officer
I've got a good sense of humor

This is the part they know you're lying

 

[craigos]

I'm sure if you ask your parents, they'd be able to help you look around their friends of friends if there is any girl around your age. Yeah, we do get a bad rep. The annoying thing is that I was born in Melbourne, I have an Aussie accent. I'm uncomfortable going up to girls. I do better with a few drinks in me.

It's good that confidence is growing, meeting people in person and becoming friends first might be an option

In my experience, there are very few young Indian people who are unattractive (in either gender), it's quite weird.

 

[akkaps]

In my experience, there are very few young Indian people who are unattractive (in either gender), it's quite weird.

....

Also, Asian girls go after white guys. But it's rare to find an white girl go after an Asian guy.

 

[Ligma]

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Also, Asian girls go after white guys. But it's rare to find a white girl go after an Asian guy.

Look I’m half but my main thing is if they like footy hahaha

If a guy is wearing a scarf or playing footy I’ll automatically swipe right.

 

[GreyCrow]

That's tough, are there groups out there that can help you with gaining confidence talking to others, and making friends that may also be going through similar situations.

Alcohol helps a lot - and no this is not deliberate but Big bang Theory got it right with Raj - alcohol allows you to be the person you want to be

Until it makes you a gibbering idiot or a perv grabbing at anything

But then I stopped caring and the conversation came easier. Dont make every interaction make or break. Just be.

One good way is to have some preset lines and routines for everyday interactions. Going to the coffee shop - talk to the barista or staff about the menu - dont let them say '' regular chai latte akkaps?'' - be ready to say '' you know what I might try something different and grab a latte chai thanks ''- something stupid but everyday matters. Compliment her hair if it looks nice then walk away. Dont stand there staring at her - up top thanks - eyes or hair.

Dont get arrested

 

[faible]

Dont get arrested

Sometimes this thread delivers some quality dating advice, I'd say this one is important.

 

[11kgm]

This is the part they know you're lying

Chat GPT wasn't ****ing helping the situation

It was saying I am an accounts receivable officer by day and detective by night, well not really but trying to find those missing payments makes me a detective like Batman

Like how do you think that's going to get me laid you stupid AI

 

[11kgm]

I'm sure if you ask your parents, they'd be able to help you look around their friends of friends if there is any girl around your age. Yeah, we do get a bad rep. The annoying thing is that I was born in Melbourne, I have an Aussie accent. I'm uncomfortable going up to girls. I do better with a few drinks in me.

It's good that confidence is growing, meeting people in person and becoming friends first might be an option

Are you Raj?

 

[11kgm]

Sometimes this thread delivers some quality dating advice, I'd say this one is important.

I went on a date with a girl in Melbourne once, there was a homeless guy begging, she went hey i know how we get a free meal, stole his money and legged it, i stood there looked and the guy and went umm I am sorry here is $50 hope that helps and went the other way

Learnt something never date a girl from Doncaster

 

[RubyLovesTheDees]

How long are people's profiles? I'm not sure how long it should be .

This is my bio

name = "ruby"
title = "miss"
print("regards,".title(), title.title(), name.title())

 

[RubyLovesTheDees]

Yep it's like high school bullshit all over again

If you are ugly like me you get no where

I can't even find a date to save my life last date 2021 I'm just not attractive enough add into the Asperger's I'm ****ed

I respond to witty/interesting compliments on bumble, regardless of looks. I value personality.

 

[11kgm]

Well i had another crazy bitch stood me up twice, sent me teasing picks on snap and then tried to tell me i was immature for not handling rejection and only wanting sex. You stood me up twice you crazy bitch **** the women out there these days, i swear the act more and more like children and for a 33 yo she should be a lot mature then that

 

[Billy ray]

Well i had another crazy bitch stood me up twice, sent me teasing picks on snap and then tried to tell me i was immature for not handling rejection and only wanting sex. You stood me up twice you crazy bitch * the women out there these days, i swear the act more and more like children and for a 33 yo she should be a lot mature then that

Just tell her she is fat

 

[11kgm]

Just tell her she is fat

She was haha

 

[ash_1050]

If you are ugly you better have a big dick or a big bank account because most girls on tinder will ignore you sadly

Well i had another crazy bitch stood me up twice, sent me teasing picks on snap and then tried to tell me i was immature for not handling rejection and only wanting sex. You stood me up twice you crazy bitch * the women out there these days, i swear the act more and more like children and for a 33 yo she should be a lot mature then that

Suspect it's not the looks that's holding you back mate, more being an immature and petulant man child.

 

[11kgm]

Suspect it's not the looks that's holding you back mate, more being an immature and petulant man child.

How, standing someone up twice without reason what am I meant to do buy her a car. Then to say to me hey you can't take rejection no what I can't take is someone wasting my time.

Never once did i say to her i want sex, or anything of the bloody kind. She had it in her head because I have tinder i wanted sex, I told her numerous times I didn't and i wanted a relationship. That was a cheap excuse on her behalf

 

[ash_1050]

How, standing someone up twice without reason what am I meant to do buy her a car. Then to say to me hey you can't take rejection no what I can't take is someone wasting my time.

Never once did i say to her i want sex, or anything of the bloody kind. She had it in her head because I have tinder i wanted sex, I told her numerous times I didn't and i wanted a relationship. That was a cheap excuse on her behalf

You’re in your 30s and referring to a woman as a “crazy bitch” because she cancelled a date twice in a row. Rather than accept that things happen and dating is by its nature a transient activity you’ve instead gone off on a rant about women and you’re making a big song and dance over something that wouldn’t even register as a blip of concern for most people.

You’re clearly someone women would rather not spend time with and you refuse to accept the common denominator in your poor dating experiences is you and how you view and treat women. It’s not attractive at all and sets off more red flags than a Chinese military demonstration. That’s why she cancelled.

Until you face that you’re an incredibly immature person with absolutely no awareness, introspection or want to change you’re only going to continue to have the same issues, and of course you’re going to blame them all on women rather than yourself.

 

[Perth gal]

You dodged a bullet,count yourself lucky. Happens to us too, I just think thank goodness you are showing your true colours early. I think yes plans can change but at least message as early as possible. I think her cancelling twice just shows she‘s a bit of a flake.

 

[mr bagcroft]

You’re in your 30s and referring to a woman as a “crazy bitch” because she cancelled a date twice in a row. Rather than accept that things happen and dating is by its nature a transient activity you’ve instead gone off on a rant about women and you’re making a big song and dance over something that wouldn’t even register as a blip of concern for most people.

You’re clearly someone women would rather not spend time with and you refuse to accept the common denominator in your poor dating experiences is you and how you view and treat women. It’s not attractive at all and sets off more red flags than a Chinese military demonstration. That’s why she cancelled.

Until you face that you’re an incredibly immature person with absolutely no awareness, introspection or want to change you’re only going to continue to have the same issues, and of course you’re going to blame them all on women rather than yourself.

What? So its no possible chance she could just be a typical time wasting chic weighing up 13 different blokes at once on a dating app??? You jump to the opposite conclusion? I will have toke of your good stuff after you good sir.

 

[ash_1050]

What? So its not possible chance she could just be a typical time wasting bitch weighing up 13 different blokes at once on a dating app??? You jump to the opposite conclusion? I will have toke of your good stuff after you good sir.

If you're in your 30s and having a meltdown about someone cancelling twice in a row I'd say there's an issue.
If you're in your 30s referring to women as a "crazy bitch" despite having never met her I'd say there's an issue.
If you haven't been laid in 5 years it's not women that are the issue, it's you.

That you feel the more obvious answer is a woman set up a Tinder profile just to enjoy wasting guys time shows that you're also missing the common denominator here. She called him out on his actions and he's relayed that to us as if he's the good guy here, completely oblivious to the fact that she's right.

 

[mr bagcroft]

If you're in your 30s and having a meltdown about someone cancelling twice in a row I'd say there's an issue.
If you're in your 30s referring to women as a "crazy bitch" despite having never met her I'd say there's an issue.
If you haven't been laid in 5 years it's not women that are the issue, it's you.

That you feel the more obvious answer is a woman set up a Tinder profile just to enjoy wasting guys time shows that you're also missing the common denominator here. She called him out on his actions and he's relayed that to us as if he's the good guy here, completely oblivious to the fact that she's right.

Yet you can make all these assumptions about someone you don't know and have never met?
Amazing powers of delusion, oops sorry I mean deduction.'

Also men getting "laid" - is very difficult generally.
Women waiting to get laid- shooting fish in a barrel on Sunday morning while doing a handstand and chewing gum at the same time.
Facts.
A women could put an add on facebook and have a queue round the corner from her place in 20 minutes.
I am not even remotely joking.

 

[ash_1050]

Yet you can make all these assumptions about someone you don't know and have never met?
Amazing powers of delusion, oops sorry I mean deduction.'

It's pretty evident.

Also men getting "laid" - is very difficult generally.

Disagree, if it's "very difficult" then there's a reason you're not doing well.

 

[JyeDye]

Yet you can make all these assumptions about someone you don't know and have never met?
Amazing powers of delusion, oops sorry I mean deduction.'

Also men getting "laid" - is very difficult generally.
Women waiting to get laid- shooting fish in a barrel on Sunday morning while doing a handstand and chewing gum at the same time.
Facts.
A women could put an add on facebook and have a queue round the corner from her place in 20 minutes.
I am not even remotely joking.

Says more about men to be honest.

Weird thread, don't know why I'm here. Someone got stood up, it happens, it sucks but you get over it. Think of it as a blessing, if they couldn't even follow through with the first stage of a relationship nothing was ever going to go well.

 

[mr bagcroft]

It's pretty evident.



Disagree, if it's "very difficult" then there's a reason you're not doing well.

??? errr, no.
its evident you have no concept of what your talking about.