I have a problem - this weekend my friends mum has paid for a suite at crown to celebrate the end of exams and stuff for my best friend and me. Shes also going back home to greece on the monday for the uni holidays so i wont see her for like a month.
Now the problem is, while this is defiantly awesome and amazing that her mum has gone and spent $700 dollars or so on us for one night (and its the perfect weekend, what with the mid season break and all!!) my friend has now gone and invited her 32 year old boyfriend and his friend to come out with us that night to. Whats more annoying is that we go out the two of us every weekend and she'll hook up with whoever she wants, so her calling him her boyfriend is a bit of a stretch but whatever.
Its annoying me because now we cant have the same weekend we were going to originally - were both 19 and i dont care what she says, the simple fact is, you cant get into the same clubs etc with two 32 year old fat men. she keeps saying, oh it means we'll get free drinks all night, but first of all im not a whore and i'm not going to ruin my night just for a few free drinks. also i can get enough drinks off guys my own age thank you very much and dont need some pervert buying them for me.
Thats the other thing that is annoying me - she thinks shes being all considerate by getting him to bring a friend along, but obviously all that is some perverted old man who wants to try and score with a 19 year old so he can brag about it on monday.
so do you think im being unreasonable? do you think its unfair for me to be put in this situation where im going to be uncomfortable all night with some dirty old man hitting on me?
more to the point, is it rude if i ask her id they could not come? shes says there not staying over, but once she gets drunk chances are she'll change her mind. i dont see why she is allowed to hook up with whoever she wants when were out clubbing every other night, but this one night we could have a seriously awesome one, she has to go and ruin it.
Do you think i could ask her if she could just go out for dinner with him instead that night? Seriously, i'll even offer not to come out and they can have the room to herself, i just dont think its fair for her to have it all her own way and leave me feeling this uncomfortable even if her mum did pay. also, when she first asked me to come, we made a promise that it would only be girls anyway - i wouldn't have agreed if she'd said the dirty old man (who has 2 kids and a wife btw!) was coming. or am i going to look ungrateful and selfish?
but seriously, is it fair that i be put in a situation where i feel so uncomfortable and almost whored out, while some dirty old man tries to pick me up all night, just because her mum paid for a hotel room?
sorry for the long rant and i doubt many people will read the whole thing, but its seriously making me mad - basically - am i justified in asking for them not to come, or offering the room just for them, or am i stuck with these dirty old men???
Now the problem is, while this is defiantly awesome and amazing that her mum has gone and spent $700 dollars or so on us for one night (and its the perfect weekend, what with the mid season break and all!!) my friend has now gone and invited her 32 year old boyfriend and his friend to come out with us that night to. Whats more annoying is that we go out the two of us every weekend and she'll hook up with whoever she wants, so her calling him her boyfriend is a bit of a stretch but whatever.
Its annoying me because now we cant have the same weekend we were going to originally - were both 19 and i dont care what she says, the simple fact is, you cant get into the same clubs etc with two 32 year old fat men. she keeps saying, oh it means we'll get free drinks all night, but first of all im not a whore and i'm not going to ruin my night just for a few free drinks. also i can get enough drinks off guys my own age thank you very much and dont need some pervert buying them for me.
Thats the other thing that is annoying me - she thinks shes being all considerate by getting him to bring a friend along, but obviously all that is some perverted old man who wants to try and score with a 19 year old so he can brag about it on monday.
so do you think im being unreasonable? do you think its unfair for me to be put in this situation where im going to be uncomfortable all night with some dirty old man hitting on me?
more to the point, is it rude if i ask her id they could not come? shes says there not staying over, but once she gets drunk chances are she'll change her mind. i dont see why she is allowed to hook up with whoever she wants when were out clubbing every other night, but this one night we could have a seriously awesome one, she has to go and ruin it.
Do you think i could ask her if she could just go out for dinner with him instead that night? Seriously, i'll even offer not to come out and they can have the room to herself, i just dont think its fair for her to have it all her own way and leave me feeling this uncomfortable even if her mum did pay. also, when she first asked me to come, we made a promise that it would only be girls anyway - i wouldn't have agreed if she'd said the dirty old man (who has 2 kids and a wife btw!) was coming. or am i going to look ungrateful and selfish?
but seriously, is it fair that i be put in a situation where i feel so uncomfortable and almost whored out, while some dirty old man tries to pick me up all night, just because her mum paid for a hotel room?
sorry for the long rant and i doubt many people will read the whole thing, but its seriously making me mad - basically - am i justified in asking for them not to come, or offering the room just for them, or am i stuck with these dirty old men???
