What is special?

[adelaide_girl]

I remember a little while ago there was a thread on what people wanted/expected from a relationship. For me and lots of others it was that feeling of being special.

So what is the one thing someone has done for you in a relationship that has made you feel icredibly special?

 

[- PC -]

Surprised me by flying my son over for my birthday and didnt tell me.

 

[beckybiglands]

Planning to move 2000 ks.... thats special...

 

[goalsneek]

Remembering a favourite song, movie, pizza topping, flower.... little things above grand gestures (like using your 500th post ). Oh, and treating them as you would want to be treated

 

[mantis]

Saying he couldn't live without me, but obviously he lied because he's still alive.

 

[DB10]

An ex-girlfriend who said she'll help me get around town as I'm unable to walk properly now is pretty special for me .

 

[lioness]

Remembering a favourite song, movie, pizza topping, flower.... little things above grand gestures

Yep it's exactly the same in my relationship. When I first went to stay with him, he wasn't sure what I ate so he just bought one of everything he'd ever seen me buy. Stuff like that means heaps more to me than any grand gesture or expensive night out. Or even just a quick sms in the middle of the day to say he's thinking of me.

 

[adelaide_girl]

Yep it's exactly the same in my relationship. When I first went to stay with him, he wasn't sure what I ate so he just bought one of everything he'd ever seen me buy. Stuff like that means heaps more to me than any grand gesture or expensive night out. Or even just a quick sms in the middle of the day to say he's thinking of me.

Ah yes, there is nothing more special than someone who makes you feel special every single day, not just a day when it's expected... And i have to agree on the sms thing, makes you feel like they are thinking about you.

 

[Scrumhalf]

Accepting to learn that absence eventually makes two hearts grow fonder.

 

[Darky]

I recently had a close friend stay over for a few days. I went to work last Friday while she stayed at my house, and when I got back the dishes were washed and she'd been up the street to buy some bits and pieces so she could make pancakes and ice cream for breakfast on the weekend. How lucky am I?

 

[mandy]

Being proposed to.

 

[PeteLX]

GOD I hate couples.

 

[Bee]

I got a trip to Paris as a surprise present for my first wedding anniversary. That was pretty special. It's my second anniversary in 19 days. I wonder if there are any more surprises in store.

 

[F/D]

Bruce McAvenay

 

[Mog]

I got a trip to Paris as a surprise present for my first wedding anniversary. That was pretty special. It's my second anniversary in 19 days. I wonder if there are any more surprises in store.

Don't hold your breath.