What would you do

[Bunk Moreland]

Saw a mates girlfriend on Tinder

They've been together for years

I don't mean "bang her"... what would you do re your mate

Have to tell him but how do I approach?

 

[exe ex machina]

bang her

 

[Piss Poor]

Saw a mates girlfriend on Tinder

They've been together for years

I don't mean "bang her"... what would you do re your mate

Have to tell him but how do I approach?

Talk to him first about something like footy then slip it in the convo somewhere.

For example your talking about trade week "hey mate did you here that Cooney wants to get traded, then he will be like yeah heard about that, then you go Kangas look like getting him your girlfriends on Tinder so Kangas who'd have thought, the bullies are a rabble aren't they."

 

[Richard Cranium]

Inform him that his girlfriend is stupid enough to try and cheat on him through Tinder?

 

[Messenger]

Hey, I hooked up with the girl on Tinder last week. Looked just like your girlfriend!

 

[Dory_77]

Eh, just because she's on tinder doesn't mean she's cheating/banging randoms. I've matched with a few chicks who are in relationships on there and are just after an ego boost/troll desperados. Maybe bring it up in a light-hearted/casual setting but it's not necessarily something to kick up a huge stink over (unless she is using it to get some dick on the side).

 

[Jaeger]

Some girls just use it to boost their self esteem but you never know.

I'd tell him BM. Is he in any of her pics? Just be straight forward and say you saw her on tinder.

 

[exe ex machina]

To elaborate...

Bang her.....then you can be sure she's cheating on your mate. Then tell him. Or tell him to come around your place while you're banging her so he finds out the proper way.

Otherwise, it's really slack to assume she's cheating without evidence, and cause them both grief, or you end up on his off-side.

 

[Stratton_Gun]

Just tell him straight up

"Hey I saw your Mrs on Tinder. What's up with that?"

 

[kickazz]

Eh, just because she's on tinder doesn't mean she's cheating/banging randoms. I've matched with a few chicks who are in relationships on there and are just after an ego boost/troll desperados. Maybe bring it up in a light-hearted/casual setting but it's not necessarily something to kick up a huge stink over (unless she is using it to get some dick on the side).

Basically this. Yes tell him, but stick to that fact and don't be melodramatic about it, it could be nothing, he might even know already. His call where to take it from there.

 

[exe ex machina]

Otherwise. Just don't say anything at all. None of your business. You don't know what's going on, so don't cause trouble. Just turn a blind eye and mind your own business. Nothing worse than a guy who goes around gossiping about his mates' girlfriends.....yes, even worse than banging her yourself (she's fair game imo).

 

[exe ex machina]

If people listened to my advice their lives would seriously be so much better.

I'm not trying to be funny. It's the best advice. Everyone else is giving soft-**** replies, which is no solution.

My advice is golden.

1. She's on Tinder - so she's open to swinging to a new tree asap and dump your mate, shes out there, available. So bang her. Get a kick out of life.

2. Or - just mind your own business and let the inevitable happen. You're not saving anyone by saying anything. You're not earning reward points.

 

[BORK]

Start a fake tinder profile of a desirable looking male and see if you can get a match with her. Then try trading a few messages and show him the results if they are bad for him.

 

[little graham]

Have to tell him but how do I approach?

You're not single.

 

[Rod Stroker]

Chances are there will be other mates/people in his network who will discover what you've discovered. Meaning he's going to find out sooner or later.

 

[JuddsABlue]

Pretty sure lots of people use tinder/have tinder accounts to see what the whole fuss was about or to chat troll, not to actually hook up

Chances are he knows she has a tinder account and she doesn't use it

 

[Bunk Moreland]

Pretty sure lots of people use tinder/have tinder accounts to see what the whole fuss was about or to chat troll, not to actually hook up

Chances are he knows she has a tinder account and she doesn't use it

"Active 5 mins ago"??

 

[Cruyff14]

Stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Is he a close mate? How well do you know her?

This has potential to get very messy, with you're wrong or right.

 

[LukasTheGreat]

You don't know she's actually doing anything so your best bet is to bang her, that way you know she's doing something wrong.

 

[JuddsABlue]

"Active 5 mins ago"??

She could just be trolling on there

I don't think she's very smart considering the amount of people she would know on Tinder if she's using to to meet guys

But who knows

Either way, just say to the guy you saw her on tinder with a casual vibe

 

[Bunk Moreland]

If people listened to my advice their lives would seriously be so much better.

I'm not trying to be funny. It's the best advice. Everyone else is giving soft-**** replies, which is no solution.

My advice is golden.

1. She's on Tinder - so she's open to swinging to a new tree asap and dump your mate, shes out there, available. So bang her. Get a kick out of life.

2. Or - just mind your own business and let the inevitable happen. You're not saving anyone by saying anything. You're not earning reward points.

Just worried she may be cheating on him is all

 

[Bunk Moreland]

Stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Is he a close mate? How well do you know her?

This has potential to get very messy, with you're wrong or right.

Very close mate.

 

[exe ex machina]

Just worried she may be cheating on him is all

Seriously.....it's not your concern. Let's assume she's genuinely thinking about cheating (or finding someone new and then dump him)....she has every right as an unmarried woman to do that, as does your mate. And maybe she's in the right to dump him. Maybe she's fallen out of love. Maybe he's in the wrong, done/said something to upset her enough. Maybe he's overly possessive. Maybe the flame is gone. Etc. You don't know, and you SHOULDNT worry or concern yourself about that.

Life happens. People break up. You have to treat him like an adult and LET life happen to him. Bad stuff (like his girlfriend dumping him) is good for the soul. And maybe deep down he secretly is sick of her or wants to get rid of her but hasnt the guts. Etc.

You have to let stuff happen to people, and let them deal with it. That's not even touching on the topic of whether she's even really planning to cheat. Or maybe he's aware of it. Maybe they're into kinky threesomes and using Tinder as a way to attract the third wheel. Etc.

 

[little graham]

Very close mate.

You've been caught, haven't you? Your just trying to find out the likelihood of you being dobbed in? You don't really want to lie to your other half about your account, unless you have to, to much fun hey?

 

[exe ex machina]

Obviously....if you're not going to choose the "bang her" solid advice. Then the alternative solid advice I gave you is more up your alley...."leave it alone" and let happen to them what happens, mind your own business.