Why can’t I get a girlfriend?

[Procrastinator35]

Most common reason for single men is small wallet

EFA.

 

[CazC30]

No

No

You are Woogie!

 

[Howard Littlejohn]

You're smart...

so be smart.... stop worrying about sluts and go and make money.

 

[CazC30]

Thank the norse gods there're no radical feminists watching

 

[Bunkdar]

In 7th grade, I took an SAT test without preparing for it at all, it was spur-of-the-moment, I knew about it about an hour ahead of time and didn't do any research or anything. I scored higher on it than the average person using it to apply for college in my area.

An IQ test has shown me to be in the 99.9th percentile for IQ. This is the highest result the test I was given reaches; anything further and they'd consider it to be within the margin of error for that test.

My mother's boyfriend of 8 years is an aerospace engineer who graduated Virginia Tech. At the age of 15, I understand physics better than him, and I owe very little of it to him, as he would rarely give me a decent explanation of anything, just tell me that my ideas were wrong and become aggravated with me for not quite understanding thermodynamics. He's not particularly successful as an engineer, but I've met lots of other engineers who aren't as good as me at physics, so I'm guessing that's not just a result of him being bad at it.

I'm also pretty good at engineering. I don't have a degree, and other than physics (my chosen major at this intellectually deplorable school) I don't have a better understanding of any aspect of engineering than any actual engineer, but I have lots of ingenuity for inventing new things. For example, I independently invented regenerative brakes before finding out what they were, and I was only seven or eight years old when I started inventing wireless electricity solutions (my first idea being to use a powerful infrared laser to transmit energy; admittedly not the best plan).

I have independently thought of basically every branch of philosophy I've come across. Every question of existentialism which I've seen discussed on Reddit or anywhere else, the thoughts haven't been new to me. Philosophy has pretty much gotten trivial for me; I've considered taking a philosophy course just to see how easy it is.

Psychology, I actually understand better than people with degrees. Unlike engineering, there's no aspect of psychology which I don't have a very good understanding of. I can debunk many of even Sigmund Freud's theories.

So why can't I get a girlfriend?

My guess
The energy from the post deserves something
lets hope it more then 4 out of 1o

 

[Headfirst]

In 7th grade, I took an SAT test without preparing for it at all, it was spur-of-the-moment, I knew about it about an hour ahead of time and didn't do any research or anything. I scored higher on it than the average person using it to apply for college in my area.

An IQ test has shown me to be in the 99.9th percentile for IQ. This is the highest result the test I was given reaches; anything further and they'd consider it to be within the margin of error for that test.

My mother's boyfriend of 8 years is an aerospace engineer who graduated Virginia Tech. At the age of 15, I understand physics better than him, and I owe very little of it to him, as he would rarely give me a decent explanation of anything, just tell me that my ideas were wrong and become aggravated with me for not quite understanding thermodynamics. He's not particularly successful as an engineer, but I've met lots of other engineers who aren't as good as me at physics, so I'm guessing that's not just a result of him being bad at it.

I'm also pretty good at engineering. I don't have a degree, and other than physics (my chosen major at this intellectually deplorable school) I don't have a better understanding of any aspect of engineering than any actual engineer, but I have lots of ingenuity for inventing new things. For example, I independently invented regenerative brakes before finding out what they were, and I was only seven or eight years old when I started inventing wireless electricity solutions (my first idea being to use a powerful infrared laser to transmit energy; admittedly not the best plan).

I have independently thought of basically every branch of philosophy I've come across. Every question of existentialism which I've seen discussed on Reddit or anywhere else, the thoughts haven't been new to me. Philosophy has pretty much gotten trivial for me; I've considered taking a philosophy course just to see how easy it is.

Psychology, I actually understand better than people with degrees. Unlike engineering, there's no aspect of psychology which I don't have a very good understanding of. I can debunk many of even Sigmund Freud's theories.

So why can't I get a girlfriend?

Im assuming you want a girlfriend rather than just a root

1. Dont worry about it. Be yourself.
2. Get yourself out there and meet as many people as you can. This doesnt mean only girls. Meeting new guy/girl friends can give you access to potential girlfriends or more guy friends who will then....well you get the idea.
3. Dont be afraid to ask a girl out. ****IMPORTANT****...try not to give a s**t about a possible rejection..you eventually get used to it.
4. Dont be afraid to date many women. You will learn to know what you want in a woman. Its OK to be picky.

NOTE: Work situations are good because it gives the girl a chance to get to know you and ask YOU out if you are too gutless to ask HER out.

 

[Freofalcon]

BRAB

This thread may answer some of your questions.

 

[CazC30]

BRAB

This thread may answer some of your questions.

Harsh... But reasonable in the grand scheme of things.

 

[Procrastinator35]