Society & Culture The BigFooty Guide to getting the woman of Your Desire (Part 7)
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Haha, didn't get that far. Yet 
What has to happen is the man cooks the steak and all the s**t on the barbie (i.e. stands around talking to mates while holding a pair of tongs) while the women does all the actual work (the salads, sets the table, gets out condoments etc etc) and at the end of it she says thanks to the man for cooking dinner
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didn't get to the part about her cooking you a steak? disappointing.Haha, didn't get that far. Yet
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Until the wife sleeps with one of He Mans mates due to a lack of appreciation and respect. This all comes out during a barbie too, and suddenly those tongs and stubbies aren't items of camaraderie but weaponry
Steak is overrated, anyway,
She's into me though. All signs are good after today.
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No wonder she's so keen for some action then
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How apt.
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I need to get rid of a woman I don't mind.
Been seeing each other for a few weeks, it was always casual and I've had a coupla macks and slept with someone else in the time. So it was never anything I was entranced by.
Last night I had a few beers 'round my mates place and she sent me a text asking what my go was. We meet up, she's with her friends (who hate me – the more the friends hate me the more keen they are, I swear), and she comes back and we sleep together. Anyway, middle of it all, I've had about nine stubbies and she's fresh off a single G&T and I start talking the kind of absolute trash you do when you're a bit pissed and you're in bed with a girl. *in end up saying "oh we should take this a little more seriously" and an hour later, we're playing games and throwing around the girlfriend and boyfriend tags.
Needless to say I woke up with the kind of regret and horror not usually reserved for when you get laid.
Saw her off to the station this morning and haven't messaged her or anything. We didn't mention anything and it was no different to the other times I've walked her to the pearly gates of Melbourne Central. I'm living in fear of her finally adding me on facebook and instantly chucking me the 'In A Relationship' verification on there...
In a few days, I'm pissing off to Perth for summer. So not only am I too interested in the freedom of singledom, but having something exclusive with the tyranny of distance and having about six weeks of knowing her is just.... probably the worst move I've ever made.
Do I just leave it and hope she understands I was pissed? Do I text her and clarify? Obviously if I tell her I was chatting rubbish, she'll never speak to me again – a situation I don't want, simply because I want a physical arrangement when I come back.
I know Bigfooty is good at being s**t with girls but is anyone good at being a s**t to girls on here?
Been seeing each other for a few weeks, it was always casual and I've had a coupla macks and slept with someone else in the time. So it was never anything I was entranced by.
Last night I had a few beers 'round my mates place and she sent me a text asking what my go was. We meet up, she's with her friends (who hate me – the more the friends hate me the more keen they are, I swear), and she comes back and we sleep together. Anyway, middle of it all, I've had about nine stubbies and she's fresh off a single G&T and I start talking the kind of absolute trash you do when you're a bit pissed and you're in bed with a girl. *in end up saying "oh we should take this a little more seriously" and an hour later, we're playing games and throwing around the girlfriend and boyfriend tags.
Needless to say I woke up with the kind of regret and horror not usually reserved for when you get laid.
Saw her off to the station this morning and haven't messaged her or anything. We didn't mention anything and it was no different to the other times I've walked her to the pearly gates of Melbourne Central. I'm living in fear of her finally adding me on facebook and instantly chucking me the 'In A Relationship' verification on there...
In a few days, I'm pissing off to Perth for summer. So not only am I too interested in the freedom of singledom, but having something exclusive with the tyranny of distance and having about six weeks of knowing her is just.... probably the worst move I've ever made.
Do I just leave it and hope she understands I was pissed? Do I text her and clarify? Obviously if I tell her I was chatting rubbish, she'll never speak to me again – a situation I don't want, simply because I want a physical arrangement when I come back.
I know Bigfooty is good at being s**t with girls but is anyone good at being a s**t to girls on here?
Do you plan on seeing her again when returning from Perth?
Wait till she brings it up, and then either abort or totally ignore it/block her on FB.
Wait till she brings it up, and then either abort or totally ignore it/block her on FB.
Just tell her the truth. She may be ok with it, she may not. Either option is better than stringing her along and digging a deeper hole for yourself.
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You could always tell her it's not gonna work out. I always find it easiest not to pussy around.
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In primary school the tell you honesty is the best option and lying just gets you in trouble. But ignorance here could go 50/50: being honest makes like a 90% chance of me not getting that beautiful physical arrangements where, when the nights are cold and the women are colder, you've got something to resort back to.
I feel like George when he doesn't answer his phone so that girl can't break up with him
I feel like George when he doesn't answer his phone so that girl can't break up with him
So really, you just want her round for sex, correct?
Let me clarify. Tell the truth if it comes up and she believes you're a committed couple. I wouldn't rush to say anything right now but you should be able to tell pretty quickly.
Don't go getting yourself in a worse situation because you just want a back up plan. She would rightly be pissed off. You said yourself you got laid while you were seeing this other girl so it's not like you're in a big drought.
She suggested we do something tomorrow. She can't get enough of me
Already said yes, it's no worry.
I went through something similar recently, without the 'we should take this more seriously' bit. Basically, I learnt that you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either accept you won't get casual sex anymore and end whatever you have, or take things to the next level. By the sounds of it you've already chosen option one.
Free house tomorrow and she's coming around.
I don't want to force anything, though. But she was more than open to coming here and hanging out.
I don't want to force anything, though. But she was more than open to coming here and hanging out.
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