Society & Culture The BigFooty Guide to getting the woman of Your Desire (Part 7)

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At present, and call me shallow, but looks are extremely important to me. I actually wish they weren't as I have fears that if I ever find my gf unattractive or she puts on 50 kegs it'll cause serious issues with our relationship. I wonder how many other people think this way? Don't get me wrong, personality is massive requirement for me too, you're around your partner a lot and there's only so long you can sex before you have to engage in conversation.

At what age do you start to not worry about looks? I mean, there's no way 70 year olds are still checking each other out, is there?
 
Nothing shallow atall craig I put on 5kgs going frm 20s to 30s. Ill be damned if I put on anymore weight. Gotta take some pride in ur appearance
Hypothetically, what possible way could a guy tell his gf that she probably needs to cut back on the cake and shed a few? A way that wouldn't result in him having his balls cut off whilst he sleeps. I have a few friends that often mention that their gf/wife has put on a little too much weight and I wonder why they wouldn't say anything.
 

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Hypothetically, what possible way could a guy tell his gf that she probably needs to cut back on the cake and shed a few? A way that wouldn't result in him having his balls cut off whilst he sleeps. I have a few friends that often mention that their gf/wife has put on a little too much weight and I wonder why they wouldn't say anything.

Just suggest u do something active together? Idk. I like going gym so thats not rly an issue. Suggest idk go for a walk, dancing, indoor rock climbing, swimming etc
 
"Definitely not ugly" is everything a girl wants to hear :hearts:

A woman started chatting to me at a bar once, and she asked what I thought of her, to which I replied, "I could tolerate you".

Surprisingly, she didn't think I was sufficiently interested in her to continue conversation.
 
Couple kg isnt bad. I went from 60-67 when I could barely get out of bed. Am back to 60/61 isnt that hard
I went from 78 to 142 :(
 
A woman started chatting to me at a bar once, and she asked what I thought of her, to which I replied, "I could tolerate you".

Surprisingly, she didn't think I was sufficiently interested in her to continue conversation.
"She is tolerable I suppose, but not handsome enough to tempt me" - Mr Darcy. He got the girl, you just needed to persist ;)

Who else would you be doing it with? :D
Oh dear. Indeed.
 
My boyfriend and I have both put on a couple of kilos over winter :( we're working on it though, doing it together is so important.
That's good, at least you both recognise it and want to do something about it. My problem is that I find it a lot easier than some to drop weight. I still play competitive sport, box, love the outdoors etc etc and if I really need to reign it in I can fast pretty good (not healthy but you know). My gf likes a little exercise but she wouldn't be keen on exercising a lot together. There was a period where I thought I wouldn't be able to run again and that probably would have turned me into a fatty.

I went from 78 to 142 :(
Jesus, stress eating or just bad food habits over a long period?

Who else would you be doing it with? :D
Cruffys feel good message would probably be "At least you're not obese" :D
 
Jesus, stress eating or just bad food habits over a long period?
probably both

back under 100 now, only took 7 months to drop the 42kg
 
probably both

back under 100 now, only took 7 months to drop the 42kg
That's an amazing effort! Although I've 'only' gained a couple over winter, I've been slowly gaining weight for a couple of years now. I would really like to lose a good 7 or 8 kilos.

I'm 'not hideous' ( ;) Cruyff) but there is definitely room for improvement.
 
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