Mate. I am sorry your wife has Parkinsons. Mine has MS.Well if He thinks it's ok to give my wife Parkinson's Disease from her late 20s, then I'm sure He can put up with a little joke or three.
However, the problem of suffering is really a non-starter.
A modicum of reading on the topic will be enlightening.
Here is a starter.
https://www.reasonablefaith.org/videos/lectures/the-problem-of-evil-and-suffering-gracepoint-church




