A question about relationships

[sbagman]

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[mantis]

Does a bear **** in the woods.

Any kind of sexual physical contact.

 

[Flat Top]

Scraping the bottom of the barrel with that topic aint we?

To me thats a very personal thing and is something i prefer not to think about let alone post about. It also might be a very sensative issue to a lot of people who might take offence to the topic.

I think leave it alone.

 

[Stucey]

Depends on the individual person and situation, but it would be pretty hard to forgive and move on, I would consider that one of the worst things you could do to a boyfriend/girlfriend. Total lack of commitment.

 

[Macca19]

Originally posted by sbagman
Would you break up with your partner if they slept with someone else?

What would you consider to be too far when it comes to your partner's physical contact with the opposite sex?

Just wondering....

If my partner slept with someone else i would not have to think twice about breaking up.
Id consider kissing too far as well...like a kiss on the lips...not a friends kiss on teh cheek.

Anything further than kissing on the cheek is a no-no in my view.

 

[Mr Ripper]

That doesn't have the ring of a hypothetical question about it, sbagman.

 

[FIGJAM]

I think we've scraped the barrel way deeper than this topic Flat Head!

ZERO physical contact for me and I would never cheat on a girl I have committed to.

To be quite honest I find male humans to be completely disgusting and I can't understand why women want physical contact with us anyway!!!

 

[NICK THE PIE MAN]

I did get close to my girlfriend last year, and i heard she was kissing one of my friends who has been on overseas exchange and came back for a week. It was hard to break up, even though i was fuming and she cheated, because i became close to her and we had been dating for 3 months, but i did dump her because i came to my senses that she was a cheating whore

 

[dees01]

Re: Re: A question about relationships

Originally posted by Macca19


If my partner slept with someone else i would not have to think twice about breaking up.
Id consider kissing too far as well...like a kiss on the lips...not a friends kiss on teh cheek.

Anything further than kissing on the cheek is a no-no in my view.

ditto!

 

[meg]

It depends on the situation.
If they are obviously very, very sorry and remourseful, and they were drunk or something like that, I would forgive them.
If it was just for the sake of being with someone else, then I'd break up with them.

 

[Macca19]

Originally posted by meg
It depends on the situation.
If they are obviously very, very sorry and remourseful, and they were drunk or something like that, I would forgive them.

Drunk would make it worse in my view! As they say 'the truth comes out when your drunk'.
Plus that just opens the floodgates for htem to say "i was drunk" everytime they go out somewhere and get with someone.

 

[mantis]

Totally agree Macca
That is the biggest cop out ever, sorry honey I was drunk, you know I love you.

 

[meg]

Well people do a lot of stupid things when they are drunk. It is a pretty lame excuse but I am just using it as an example. If they had no control, as in they were blind drunk, then you still wouldn't forgive them?

 

[Macca19]

Originally posted by meg
Well people do a lot of stupid things when they are drunk. It is a pretty lame excuse but I am just using it as an example. If they had no control, as in they were blind drunk, then you still wouldn't forgive them?

If my girlfriend got so drunk that she passed out, and then some guy decided to have sex with her while she was drunk, and she woke up in the middle of it and didnt want to say anything in fewar of being beaten....then yeah i would probably forgive her. Mind you i doubt i would ever be able to look at her the same again - as it would be her fault for getting so drunk she had no control over her body.

 

[meg]

Originally posted by Macca19

Mind you i doubt i would ever be able to look at her the same again - as it would be her fault for getting so drunk she had no control over her body.

Fair enough point.
I don't know... as you can see I've obviously (thankfully) had no experience on anyone cheating on me, so, unless it does happen in the future, I can't say that I can really comment.

 

[Macca19]

Originally posted by meg


Fair enough point.
I don't know... as you can see I've obviously (thankfully) had no experience on anyone cheating on me, so, unless it does happen in the future, I can't say that I can really comment.

ive been cheated on before similar to Lioness's predicament

 

[Joel]

Originally posted by Macca19


ive been cheated on before similar to Lioness's predicament

I've got a friend who has been cheated on like 4 times by the same girl. The chick tried to cheat on him with me but I told her to **** OFF. You know what the cause of all this cheating was...alcohol. I don't think she can handle it to well. It is NO excuse.

Mind you, he knows that she has cheated on him, she even admited it to him...yet he is still going out with her. Makes you wonder.

Cheating is a BIG NO NO. However listen to their excuses then decide if you want to tell them where to go or whether to forgive and forget.

 

[Nic]

Originally posted by Macca19
If my girlfriend got so drunk that she passed out, and then some guy decided to have sex with her while she was drunk, and she woke up in the middle of it and didnt want to say anything in fewar of being beaten....then yeah i would probably forgive her. Mind you i doubt i would ever be able to look at her the same again - as it would be her fault for getting so drunk she had no control over her body.

So basically Macca you would forgive your girlfriend for being r*ped??? So because she was blind drunk and not in control of her body that gives a guy the right to have sex with her?

 

[The Old Dark Navy's]

Originally posted by meg


Fair enough point.
I don't know... as you can see I've obviously (thankfully) had no experience on anyone cheating on me, so, unless it does happen in the future, I can't say that I can really comment.

Very openminded responses Meg. I agree, every situation has to be looked at in isolation. (not suggesting I have been there however). As you are an intelligent, open minded Blues fan, there would never be any need for anybody to cheat on you!!