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Maybe I'm just cynical, but I find it really hard to believe he had a genuine gambling problem. I feel like he's laying it on thick as part of his role for these bodies and for thispaid advertisementarticle.
I know I'm dumb but where do you find this 'archive' thingummy?Yeah, I'm not allowed to post the archive link.
But if your were to paste the above link into archive, you would be able to read the article.
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whats gambling go to do with bereavement ?Can recall talk about gambling being rife at the club back in the Judd/Murphy/Gibbs days - punters club within the playing group, innuendo on here about Menzel and Gibbs' real reasons for going home, etc. Not surprising or outlandish that a young guy entering that environment right after losing his dad would develop a problem.
Is is that hard to comprehend young people experiencing loss reaching for crutches and distraction?whats gambling go to do with bereavement ?
Why would a non gambler suddenly decide that gambling was a comfort to themselves when they are grieving ? Makes no sense to me ....and reads like a croc of tbh
And not just young peopleIs is that hard to comprehend young people experiencing loss reaching for crutches and distraction?
whats gambling go to do with bereavement ?
Why would a non gambler suddenly decide that gambling was a comfort to themselves when they are grieving ? Makes no sense to me ....and reads like a croc of tbh
A bit of mine was linked to my dad passing away and the linkage I had with him
My dad was a compulsive gambler.Not sure if I'm interpreting this correctly, but I noticed this line....
Maybe Sam's dad liked to have a punt, so Sam kind of embraced that after his dad died?
YepMy dad was a compulsive gambler.
I've always been conscious to check myself in case I had that tendency. I don't go to casino's or bet on pokies.
I know I can fixate on things and I suspect my dad was similar.
Anyway, I bet on Melbourne Cup Day and treat it like a little memorial for dad.
I get it.
Addiction comes in many forms.
This is also why I have a soft spot for Lij...and I think I know why Carlton have been so firm about it. I get that.
But I'm big on redemption arcs.
I hope ..if he's really seen the light that we keep him.
whats gambling go to do with bereavement ?
Why would a non gambler suddenly decide that gambling was a comfort to themselves when they are grieving ? Makes no sense to me ....and reads like a croc of tbh
More generally, people can turn to alcohol, drugs, endorphin-chasing and other risky activities after losing someone close.
Don't see why gambling wouldn't fit this.
it's also fairly common that in managing an addiction to one of those things the interest is spread to a different but similar one.More generally, people can turn to alcohol, drugs, endorphin-chasing and other risky activities after losing someone close.
Don't see why gambling wouldn't fit this.
Totally agree Soapy. Many addictions and/or compulsions are due to anxiety and/or depression. It can also be a dopamine hit to take away perceived pain or it can be a way of trying to control the uncontrollable.Happens a lot. Distraction, channeling pain etc. I have seen it a lot

My problem "P" is neither of the four Clarkson would mention, its procrastinationTotally agree Soapy. Many addictions and/or compulsions are due to anxiety and/or depression. It can also be a dopamine hit to take away perceived pain or it can be a way of trying to control the uncontrollable.
Many of us here may be addicts to these Carlton Bigfooty Forums! Gotta get my dopamine hit!!!!! Crying out for another juicy rumour.![]()
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Maybe it was something they liked doing together few beers and a bit of a punt…whats gambling go to do with bereavement ?
Why would a non gambler suddenly decide that gambling was a comfort to themselves when they are grieving ? Makes no sense to me ....and reads like a croc of tbh
It’s not linear people greive differently…..yes loss is inevitable, its just so very difficult to cope withWell - thanks to all the posters who pointed out that gambling might be a form of distraction from the grief ( like alcohol etc) - I guess I can understand that - especially in the context if it was around them amongst people they work with every day ..
still - grief to me is a private matter i don't 'get' people monetising it - or proselytising over it - it smacks of something NQR - because and it is only a matter of time- grief is part of the human condition - loss is inevitable, sadly.
best wishes to all regarding this stuff.
THere are a lot variables at play, some of which can be a simple matter of timingWell - thanks to all the posters who pointed out that gambling might be a form of distraction from the grief ( like alcohol etc) - I guess I can understand that - especially in the context if it was around them amongst people they work with every day ..
still - grief to me is a private matter i don't 'get' people monetising it - or proselytising over it - it smacks of something NQR - because and it is only a matter of time- grief is part of the human condition - loss is inevitable, sadly.
best wishes to all regarding this stuff.