First date ideas?

[Shell]

This thread is classic, I hope the mods keep it open.

My gf and I were talking about our "first date" the other day, which got confusing because we didn't technically have one. We got along from the very start and did a lot of things together, hanging out etc. So it's difficult to say when it was a date, and when it was just us doing what we always do..

My bf says the same thing... he doesnt believe our first date was the picnic as I posted about in this thread ealier... he reckons we were "officially" going out on the second date when we went to dinner and a movie. Too bad what I say goes.

Funnily enough, one of the first places we went to together was the Museum of Natural History in NYC. Great place if you want to strike up an interesting conversation and appear intelligent.

Ohhhh, I've been there. Great museum.

 

[VINCANITY]

If there is a place where local and touring bands play in the town you live in, then take her there (depending on the band of course) after a small low-key dinner.

 

[jordanrobbo3]

Funnily enough, one of the first places we went to together was the Museum of Natural History in NYC. Great place if you want to strike up an interesting conversation and appear intelligent.

Don't really wanna come across as a sticky nose, but how did that happen? Were you friends and just happened to go to NY together or were you "together" and went on the trip? Fair trip to take as a new couple..

 

[Team Mo']

At first I went to the brothel. Minute later I came out *of the brothel* and the date was over.

PRetty quick but bit expensive. Jeez woman are expensive creatures these days hey lads?

 

[goal sneak]

take her to a really nice restaurant. when she does to powder her nose, slip a roofy into her drink. take her home, jizz on her face and stick pubes, that you had shaved and prepared earlier - to her face. adorn her with a top hat. when she awakes, say good morning abe lincoln would you like some toast and coffee.

 

[Rise_up_Stiffy]

take her to a really nice restaurant. when she does to powder her nose, slip a roofy into her drink. take her home, jizz on her face and stick pubes, that you had shaved and prepared earlier - to her face. adorn her with a top hat. when she awakes, say good morning abe lincoln would you like some toast and coffee.

this

 

[The Boy From Brasil]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

I remember one of my first dates, took this girl that I was really keen on to a really nice french restaurant. Everything was going well, nice conversation, nice wine and really nice food. Things were looking promising, or so I thought.

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks. Still I had no clue what was going on. After a bit more time, the waiter decides to put me out of my misery and explain that my "date" had left the restaurant a fair while ago, and was I ready to have the bill? In other words, she had done a runner. Everyone in the entire restaurant knew except for me. There was nothing else left to do but put my head down and try and get out of the restuarant as fast as I could and put an end to the humiliation. Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

 

[w00dy]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

For me I think dinner is good, but for a first date I'd like to keep it a little more casual... Like a place that does good food, but isn't necessarily a restaurant... Just an environment that's a little more relaxing... If it goes well, then you do the fancy restaurant later... I would think this would also weed out the 'gold digger' types, that are looking to be spoilt, rather than a chick who is more down to earth...

 

[Power King]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

I remember one of my first dates, took this girl that I was really keen on to a really nice french restaurant. Everything was going well, nice conversation, nice wine and really nice food. Things were looking promising, or so I thought.

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks. Still I had no clue what was going on. After a bit more time, the waiter decides to put me out of my misery and explain that my "date" had left the restaurant a fair while ago, and was I ready to have the bill? In other words, she had done a runner. Everyone in the entire restaurant knew except for me. There was nothing else left to do but put my head down and try and get out of the restuarant as fast as I could and put an end to the humiliation. Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

Dog **** of an act by female that could never call herself a woman.

She should have grown some balls (er, grown a pussy) and told you like a woman about her thoughts, face to face.

The thing is, most men would look at this situation and think that the male wasn't good enough for the female. I look at it and think that this female in reality is not good enough for any male with self-respect.

For me I think dinner is good, but for a first date I'd like to keep it a little more casual... Like a place that does good food, but isn't necessarily a restaurant... Just an environment that's a little more relaxing... If it goes well, then you do the fancy restaurant later... I would think this would also weed out the 'gold digger' types, that are looking to be spoilt, rather than a chick who is more down to earth...

w00dy has his head screwed on properly.

 

[Ferris_rules]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

I remember one of my first dates, took this girl that I was really keen on to a really nice french restaurant. Everything was going well, nice conversation, nice wine and really nice food. Things were looking promising, or so I thought.

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks. Still I had no clue what was going on. After a bit more time, the waiter decides to put me out of my misery and explain that my "date" had left the restaurant a fair while ago, and was I ready to have the bill? In other words, she had done a runner. Everyone in the entire restaurant knew except for me. There was nothing else left to do but put my head down and try and get out of the restuarant as fast as I could and put an end to the humiliation. Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

any chick even capable of thinking of doing something like that isnt worth having them in your life.

think of it this way for the price of a dinner you learnt an invaluable tough and harsh lesson about life.

mate i think the rest of the guys in here give you credit and no one would think any less, if anything we all probably hold you in high regard for going through that !

****in dog dirty act. karma will follow her and catch and smack her in the arse.

 

[The Cranium]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

I remember one of my first dates, took this girl that I was really keen on to a really nice french restaurant. Everything was going well, nice conversation, nice wine and really nice food. Things were looking promising, or so I thought.

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks. Still I had no clue what was going on. After a bit more time, the waiter decides to put me out of my misery and explain that my "date" had left the restaurant a fair while ago, and was I ready to have the bill? In other words, she had done a runner. Everyone in the entire restaurant knew except for me. There was nothing else left to do but put my head down and try and get out of the restuarant as fast as I could and put an end to the humiliation. Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

FMD - I think some form of retribution would be called for here...a bit of public humiliation to warn fellow would be victims.

I can't use a certain word here, but that is all she is.

hope you have fared better since and are not gun shy.

 

[Omar Jones]

Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

Thats ****ed! - Hope she didn't order the lobster

 

[Hot Spenny]

How long ago was this BfB? Reveal her name to Bigfooty. I'm sure much can be done.

 

[BWST]

People still date nowdays ?

If i was going on a date, i'd take her fishing

Seriously, my idea for a first date would be simple. A nice walk along a beach with the dogs, presuming of course she was a dog person, she'd have to be, or i wouldn't date her.

 

[bresker]

I'm going for a first date on Tuesday. She's cooking me dinner at her house. i'll be packing an overnight bag.

Well, I met her at a club on Saturday and we spent the night on her friend's couch. Does that count as a date?

 

[The Boy From Brasil]

I'm going for a first date on Tuesday. She's cooking me dinner at her house. i'll be packing an overnight bag.

Well, I met her at a club on Saturday and we spent the night on her friend's couch. Does that count as a date?

Technically, probably not. You seem to have jumped a few steps.

But good luck for Tuesday. Hope she is a nice cook. Make sure to give us the running updates

 

[Macca19]

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks....

Personally, I would have taken a dump on her doorstep. Did you contact her after and say wtf?

 

[Ellis2WeightsRoom]

'Borrow' some cash of your Parents.
Take her to crown.
Teach her to play roullette or blackjack, splash around a bit of cash.
Then have dinner in the food court.
Be a great date.

 

[bresker]

My parents are dead, can I use yours?

Well I had a strange night. She didn't cook me dinner for some reason never explained. I don't think that attracted to me, so we didn't do sex. We just sat up all night drinking wine and talking sh1t. We kissed a bit and I felt her arse and **** but that was about it. So romantic

Her ex-partner is an abusive schizophrenic by the sounds of it and still owns half her flat so I'm best off out of it. She says he wouldn't be happy about me.

 

[Ferris_rules]

Personally, I would have taken a dump on her doorstep. Did you contact her after and say wtf?

lol all the class of a Port supporter !

Sorry Macca, look I agree with you, what a dog act, she deserves to be treated as the bitch that she is.

The easy simple option that night was for her to pay half, say that she didnt think things would work out and catch a cab back. It is no wonder some guys treat girls the way they do, not that I condone that behaviour either, but geez Boy from Brazil trust me, your the winner. This gem would have caused you so much grief and heartache on a greater scale if she stayed with you.

If she is capable of this behaviour she is capable of anything really.

 

[The Boy From Brasil]

Did you contact her after and say wtf?

Well I rang the mobile a couple of times that night to see if she was okay, just in case she was sick or something. But she didn't take the call. And the waiter at the restaurant had basically told me she had done a runner(maybe waiters see a bit of people doing runners at restaurant) so I got the message.

I generally find life is too short to hold grudges or take things to heart, so I wrote it off as a bad and funny experience and didn't contact her again. I have had a few doozy dates as most people probably have. They are not great but you can look back and laugh at them, and they make the good ones seem all the more worthwhile

 

[The Boy From Brasil]

Well I had a strange night. She didn't cook me dinner for some reason never explained. I don't think that attracted to me, so we didn't do sex. We just sat up all night drinking wine and talking sh1t. We kissed a bit and I felt her arse and **** but that was about it.
Her ex-partner is an abusive schizophrenic by the sounds of it and still owns half her flat so I'm best off out of it. She says he wouldn't be happy about me.

Thanks for the update Bresker. Maybe a bit too much information but no problem I appreciated the effort.

Yep, agree with you that you are probably best out of the picture. When it comes to people that you don't want to get on the wrong side of, abusive schizophenics are probably right up there with the best of them.

 

[DeadlyAkkuret]

A nice restaurant is always a good idea for the first date, although I guess it depends on the guys budget.

I remember one of my first dates, took this girl that I was really keen on to a really nice french restaurant. Everything was going well, nice conversation, nice wine and really nice food. Things were looking promising, or so I thought.

After finishing eating, she excuses herself to the ladies. So I am at the table, waiting, waiting, waiting. After what seems like an eternity, I happen to glance at people in the restuarant giving me strange looks. Still I had no clue what was going on. After a bit more time, the waiter decides to put me out of my misery and explain that my "date" had left the restaurant a fair while ago, and was I ready to have the bill? In other words, she had done a runner. Everyone in the entire restaurant knew except for me. There was nothing else left to do but put my head down and try and get out of the restuarant as fast as I could and put an end to the humiliation. Suffice to say I havn't seen the girl in question again or frequented the restuarant again.

You wore tweed, didn't you?

No that is seriously ****ed up, what a ****!

 

[DeadlyAkkuret]

My parents are dead, can I use yours?

Well I had a strange night. She didn't cook me dinner for some reason never explained. I don't think that attracted to me, so we didn't do sex. We just sat up all night drinking wine and talking sh1t. We kissed a bit and I felt her arse and **** but that was about it. So romantic

Her ex-partner is an abusive schizophrenic by the sounds of it and still owns half her flat so I'm best off out of it. She says he wouldn't be happy about me.

You win the thread.

 

[Ferris_rules]

We kissed a bit and I felt her arse and **** but that was about it. So romantic
.

This is gold Jerry, gold !

In fairness its all cool. Its funny reading about it by a guy putting it so eloquently !

Priceless.