Family & Relationships GF's seeing exes

[Tambling2Post]

What do you guys reckon about this? Not even exes, mine is still in contact with guys who were party hookups, exes, guys she fooled around with etc. and catches up with some of them regularly. what do u guys think and do u think its 'fair tackle, play on' or not on?

 

[r dub 19]

I think it's straight to the MRP and out for the season.

 

[c00lcat]

wouldn't be too impressed based on how you've described it, 'catching up regularly' etc.
but no doubt if you brought it up she'd be all like 'but my freedom, you don't control me'
depends on the context though

 

[SebastianVettel]

I think it's straight to the MRP and out for the season.

What about with an early plea?

Could be cancelled out by what seems to be a bad record though.

 

[yummy6]

Doesn't sound too flash going by your description. Looks like she has carry over points.

 

[Chops_a_must]

Ask for a trade.

Once you've lost confidence and trust in your team mate, time to move to a better opportunity.

 

[Tambling2Post]

I'm thinking a Dan Connors style 8 weeks off with potential for all-round improvement after having had time to think about the benefits of continuing her career.

In all seriousness though it will be something like "So we catching up on the weekend?" "Yeah but when? because I am meeting up with 'x' this weekend" "Oh who is that?" "Just a mate. I used to be seeing him but we havnt spoken for a while" "Nah none of that shit" "It's my life I can see my friends and its not like we're gonna do anything blah, blah."

women.

 

[Dan Moody]

hhmmm, this doesn't sound too promising.
if you play it cool she may think you don't care, too controlling and she'll revert back to her floozy ways.
how long have you been seeing her?

 

[r dub 19]

I'm thinking a Dan Connors style 8 weeks off with potential for all-round improvement after having had time to think about the benefits of continuing her career.

In all seriousness though it will be something like "So we catching up on the weekend?" "Yeah but when? because I am meeting up with 'x' this weekend" "Oh who is that?" "Just a mate. I used to be seeing him but we havnt spoken for a while" "Nah none of that shit" "It's my life I can see my friends and its not like we're gonna do anything blah, blah."

women.

Yeah time to de-list.

 

[Powerade 08]

Actually loled irl at this.

Instead of spending time with you she's out having deep and meaningful conversation with a party hookup or an ex boyfriend.

 

[Tambling2Post]

dating for 3 and a half months, probly been seeing her for about 5. Never really had a major fight, the sechs life is pretty good and usually seems happy to see me, just find the whole situation peculiar.

 

[c00lcat]

I'm thinking a Dan Connors style 8 weeks off with potential for all-round improvement after having had time to think about the benefits of continuing her career.

In all seriousness though it will be something like "So we catching up on the weekend?" "Yeah but when? because I am meeting up with 'x' this weekend" "Oh who is that?" "Just a mate. I used to be seeing him but we havnt spoken for a while" "Nah none of that shit" "It's my life I can see my friends and its not like we're gonna do anything blah, blah."

women.

additional info says it all. don't renew this contract

 

[lovely]

In all seriousness though it will be something like "So we catching up on the weekend?" "Yeah but when? because I am meeting up with 'x' this weekend" "Oh who is that?" "Just a mate. I used to be seeing him but we havnt spoken for a while" "Nah none of that shit" "It's my life I can see my friends and its not like we're gonna do anything blah, blah."

Why would she say this? Seriously? As if that isn't going to ignite some kind of jealousy...

ugh, people...

 

[swiftdog]

Trade for early draft pick. Pick-up fresh young talent with potential for growth.

 

[Hawks1523]

Travis Tuck style ban and delist with possible rookie list position if problems are resolved.

 

[Tambling2Post]

start speaking to other clubs behind the scenes?

 

[Powerade 08]

start speaking to other clubs behind the scenes?

No. That is what she is doing.

Delist her and recruit another.

 

[Bunnie]

Sounds like she sees you guys more like friends with benefits or casual relationship rather than official 'couple'. The fact she books in plans with exes BEFORE checking out what you guys are doing indicates where you are on her foodchain...

sorry.

(I am a chick so kinda have insight into this...)

 

[Dan Moody]

start speaking to other clubs behind the scenes?

right.
keep seeing her just for teh secks only. remove any emotional involvement.
the best way to do that is to go out and score immediately, tap anything that moves. also mention to her that you're catching up with friends as well, she'll soon want to get more of your time, if not then you know it's time to keep moving on

 

[Tambling2Post]

Also a few weeks ago she said "I want this to be a serious relationship."

Doesn't f'n look like it sweetheart

 

[Spudregus_87]

Delist and look to the draft for a younger option who possesses more potential/talent/enthusiasm.

 

[c00lcat]

have you considered a mature-age recruit at all or does this not meet your requirements at the current time?

 

[Tambling2Post]

Nah sticking to a strict youth policy at the moment but there is potential for a mature age on a short-term contract. And if I delist she will get swooped on in the PSD. Better to try and get some value, possibly a trade?

 

[Tambling2Post]

re-quoted before mod's delete.

Tomorrow I lay down the law then lads. Will let you know how the contract negotiatins pan out. If there is any real desire on her part to stay at the club she will re-sign a long term deal and cut any ties with expansion teams.

Will keep you posted.

 

[Powerade 08]

Tomorrow I lay down the law then lads. Will let you know how the contract negotiatins pan out. If there is any real desire on her part to stay at the club she will re-sign a long term deal and cut any ties with expansion teams.

Will keep you posted.

Good man.

Delist immediately if she doesn't commit.