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No I'm saying there's a huge difference between real explicit homophobia and someone making a comment that wasn't intended to be offensive and that the response to each shouldn't be the same. It's all down to intent, I like to take people at there word, if they didn't intend offense I'd suggest maybe some understanding both ways is in order. If you'd prefer to try and read their mind as to what you think their intent was and ruin someone's life over it (by for example getting them fired or branding them a homophobe) then I'd suggest it's you that lacks empathy.So from what I understand what you're saying, essentially it's ok to call out homophobia when you consider it to be (the example you gave was Westboro Baptist Church) but when you don't (BT) it's not ok to call it out. That is essentially what this discussion comes down to, our different opinion on what constitutes a homophobic comment. The thing is, we know that these words are hurtful to a lot of people (you are being disingenuous if you are going to claim otherwise) even if it isn't offensive to you personally. So to me, to defend them shows a total lack of empathy or at least sympathy to what oppressed/marginalised groups have been through historically and unfortunately what they are still subject to in today's society.
How have I assaulted free speech btw? I have never said people can't say those words. Sure you are free to say whatever offensive things you want, I mean no one is going to arrest you. But I just question why anyone would a) want to say things they know will hurt people/groups or b) defend people that do that. I have only said that when those comments are made, people can (and should) call them out if they find them offensive. You seem have an issue with people doing this. Do you see the contradiction in that you are championing free speech but have an issue with people speaking freely in calling something homophobic if they consider it so? You are contradicting your own argument.
You do realise that the first two lines of your second paragraph applies perfectly to my argument. The only difference is you are branding people homophobes, racists, bigots and whatever else based on very little evidence and all I'm calling for is a more nuanced response. I'm unsure of how that makes me unempathetic, in fact I'd argue it's quite the opposite. The world isn't as black and white as you paint it and nor should we be in our responses.
One other thing, you continue to question why I would defend people who say often unintended offensive things. I've told you several times. Because your rhetoric hurts the side I've worked a third of my life trying to promote and aid. I've given you several examples of this. I used to be you, I used to think you have to call out everything that could offend others, but over the years came the slow realization that it was alienating friends and colleagues. It was hurting my cause and I was killing free expression. Now you can choose to disagree with my assessment but you can't continue to question why I'd continue to speak out against these reactions.
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