Society & Culture The BigFooty Guide to getting the woman of Your Desire (Part 7)

[OzBomber]

Sounds similar, Frankston High I'm guessing?

Oh it's not flash is it? I can make the odd trip to Flannies, and I can't help but admit that I'll have my annual one venture in summer to Davey's because it's been a year and I've forgotten it's terrible haha.
But Cherry takes the cake. I've been there once, for about an hour, and I refuse to go anywhere near it again.

Got it in one. What year did you finish year 12? Fair chance we know eachother haha.

Well I haven't been in over a year, and I don't plan on going anytime soon. You stand on someones shoe and they all want to fight ya, and it's just dirty as ****. Much prefer Mornington.

 

[cAsEy_18]

Got it in one. What year did you finish year 12? Fair chance we know eachother haha.

Well I haven't been in over a year, and I don't plan on going anytime soon. You stand on someones shoe and they all want to fight ya, and it's just dirty as ****. Much prefer Mornington.

Massive chance haha, 2010?

I went once for someone's birthday, and bailed almost straight away. It's just guys in singlets and hats in the middle of winter trying to - I have no idea what they're doing haha. But yeah, Morno's got it covered for sure.

 

[checkraiseulite]

Scared of?

I'm all systems go if it was a chance now. I'm just not that keen on waiting a few months for this when I'm not necessarily that keen on her in particular, and I'm looking for a girlfriend basically now.

You really think if what she says is true you're going to be waiting 2 months?

Sounds like she's putting the heat on looking to have some fun and you're shying away.

 

[OzBomber]

Massive chance haha, 2010?

I went once for someone's birthday, and bailed almost straight away. It's just guys in singlets and hats in the middle of winter trying to - I have no idea what they're doing haha. But yeah, Morno's got it covered for sure.

2011 man. Your username isn't also your last name by any chance is it?

Fair chance I may know the girl too haha.

 

[cAsEy_18]

2011 man. Your username isn't also your last name by any chance is it?

Fair chance I may know the girl too haha.

Haha head to the PM's man? That might be a giveaway, it sure is.

Yeah, would be a decent chance haha.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

Whoever said bigfooty can't be a matchmaking service

 

[cAsEy_18]

You really think if what she says is true you're going to be waiting 2 months?

Sounds like she's putting the heat on looking to have some fun and you're shying away.

Fair call, from what I've said I see how you're getting that. But no. I'm anything but shying away.

She's just odd as I said. One minute she'll be all over me, the next I'm trying to organise when to do something and she says "Nah, I'll be right" without a reason. She's just not very cottoned on, she's admitted herself she's not very good at the whole flirty thing, either doing it or picking up on it.
It's just a lot slower than I expected, and considering this is a girl who I'm not "that" into, I'm not worrying about it "that" much.

 

[OzBomber]

Haha head to the PM's man? That might be a giveaway, it sure is.

Yeah, would be a decent chance haha.

Haha done. What's said on BF, stays on BF then eh?

 

[cAsEy_18]

Haha done. What's said on BF, stays on BF then eh?

Sounds good - unless, you know, she's actually on here herself. I'd very highly doubt it haha.

 

[checkraiseulite]

Fair call, from what I've said I see how you're getting that. But no. I'm anything but shying away.

She's just odd as I said. One minute she'll be all over me, the next I'm trying to organise when to do something and she says "Nah, I'll be right" without a reason. She's just not very cottoned on, she's admitted herself she's not very good at the whole flirty thing, either doing it or picking up on it.
It's just a lot slower than I expected, and considering this is a girl who I'm not "that" into, I'm not worrying about it "that" much.

Protip: don't 'try to organise'. Tell her you want to stop playing games on Facebook and do something or that you're done stroking her ego after she's broken up with her boyfriend.

 

[Doss]

Pfft, none of the places above are even a patch on Orange Whip.

The O-WHIP.

I've been there once and I genuinely began to fear for my life.

 

[chargers 09]

Pfft, none of the places above are even a patch on Orange Whip.

The O-WHIP.

I've been there once and I genuinely began to fear for my life.

How do you mean? There's rougher joints going around......

 

[Doss]

How do you mean? There's rougher joints going around......

Not the night I was there.

Every bogan and his dog was there. Wife beaters, thongs, more tatts than Dane Swan could ever dream of.

And that was at 8pm. Just didn't seem like a great place. That was many moons ago, though, well six years ago to be exact. So it may have picked up its act since then.

 

[MisterB]

What he said

 

[Jimmy1992]

What he said about what he said.

 

[Big Bryza]

Yeah what he said about what he said about what he said.

 

[Jimmy1992]

Okay guys I have an interesting one, and I don't know what sort of advice I am actually looking for here, but I shall post anyway.
Had an exam today and was studying with a few people in the library when a girl in our course walked in, whom I have not spoken to before. Anyway, we were chatting a little bit (No Awkward Flirting Story) and we seemed to get on well.
Anyway, our next exam is on Thursday and I will ask her out on Thursday.
My main question is, I guess; should I do it before or after the exam? I was thinking after just walking back to the car just a simple "Hey, listen, do you want to go out sometime? What are you doing lunchtime tomorrow?" Sounds easy, no?

 

[getthefooty]

Definitely after. Even putting the girl aside you don't want to be struggling your way through an exam with the added burden of just being rejected (not that I doubt your abilities Jimmy).

 

[Tonythetiger]

Is she cute?

 

[Jimmy1992]

Definitely after. Even putting the girl aside you don't want to be struggling your way through an exam with the added burden of just being rejected (not that I doubt your abilities Jimmy).

Let's be honest, you probably should doubt my abilities. And, on top of that, being my final exam, not too fussed if I get rejected. Will end up drinking myself into a stuper with a couple of mates that night playing some FIFA anyway. But, yes, after is the better idea.

 

[dales.girl38]

Before the exam is probably not a good idea, but after can be a problem if one of you finishes early etc.

 

[Jimmy1992]

Before the exam is probably not a good idea, but after can be a problem if one of you finishes early etc.

This was my only real reservation, but, chances are I will be chilling with mates for a little while after the exam anyway.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

I'd say before.

Unless you know you're both going to stay til the very end.

 

[TheFreshBanana]

This was my only real reservation, but, chances are I will be chilling with mates for a little while after the exam anyway.

What if she finishes before you? Gonna leave at 75% through? Haha

How do you know you two are going to be together before exam?

 

[Jimmy1992]

What if she finishes before you? Gonna leave at 75% through? Haha

How do you know you two are going to be together before exam?

That has already been arranged, the group from today is studying on Thursday as well. I made sure to tell her that, and she said she will come.
I finished heaps before her today... but in any case, I'll just say before we go in "I'll see you after" that will give her the idea