Scandal Tom Silvagni convicted of rape

[Munich]

Why do you say this? You don’t know the full story!! Maybe her boyfriend beat the sh*t out of him? Maybe he stood by her? Maybe he had nothing to do with the family after it happened and supported her?!!

Eh?

 

[marcmurphy3]

Why do you say this? You don’t know the full story!! Maybe her boyfriend beat the sh*t out of him? Maybe he stood by her? Maybe he had nothing to do with the family after it happened and supported her?!!

The poster is referring to Tom's gf, not the victim.

 

[marcmurphy3]

Can understand the Silvagni family backing their son, but not sure it was wise to come out and make that statement. Better off just saying the matter is still being dealt with in the courts, and they won't be commenting at this time.

 

[Grockadoc]

“He told the court Silvagni had suffered additional punishment from the extensive media attention, following the suppression over his identity being lifted on Thursday.

Silvagni should also receive a lighter sentence because his time in custody would be more difficult due to his poor mental health and risk of suicide, Mr Hallowes said.”

How do Lawyers sleep at night..

Yep. His "mental health" is in the tpilet because he got caught and convictes of one of the worst crimes imaginable.

Disgusting behaviour from those about how Tom should be protected etc but nothing about the victim and her mental health.

I get lawyers need to do what's in the best interest dor their client, but still, it's so scummy.

 

[parano1a]

The girlfriend who was at the house and is still with him needs her head read.

"I ain't saying she a gold digger..."

 

[EskimoPAFC]

Amazing how many people get caught via something daft altering electronic documents. Unless you are really really good it can be picked up from forensic document analysis with relative ease. And the prosecution are absolutely going to spend some money on any electronic receipt presented as some kind of alibi

There used to be a reality tv show where they did lie detector tests and revealed the results live on air.

The funny thing was, no matter how badly someone failed the test, they could still just respond by saying the test got it wrong and it would always leave some doubt as that was always a mathematical possibility no matter how strong the result was.

The only people who were completely ****ed were those that tried to use tactics to cheat the test. It always failed and it was the only way you could be 100% sure they were lying.

 

[GoEaglesGoSGIO]

Yep. His "mental health" is in the tpilet because he got caught and convictes of one of the worst crimes imaginable.

Disgusting behaviour from those about how Tom should be protected etc but nothing about the victim and her mental health.

I get lawyers need to do what's in the best interest dor their client, but still, it's so scummy.

Lawyers actually has one of the highest rates of depression for a reason

Guilt

 

[Munich]

In a taped phone call, he told the victim that she should "just move on with her life".

I'm not surprised he was gaslighting her since it happened.

 

[Cyclops]

Horrible story, poor woman, its good if some sort of justice gets done because a lot of assaults go u punished.

The anonymity stuff is fraught, but these offences stir up harsh feelings for all of us affected(most families have been) its hard to treat the accused fairly.

Not a perfect solution and gets abused.

I feel like this is a non footy thread maybe?

 

[parano1a]

His statements imply the female victim is lying even though the court found otherwise.

If St Kilda was a respectable club they would part ways with Silvagni immediately. But it's St Kilda.

 

[parano1a]

In a taped phone call, he told the victim that she should "just move on with her life".

Let's hope he is better at handling a bar of soap than he was a footy...

 

[jwikked]

If St Kilda was a respectable club they would part ways with Silvagni immediately. But it's St Kilda.

Why? Since when have we punished parents for their adult childrens problems?

Has nothing to do with St Kilda.

 

[Saucery]

If St Kilda was a respectable club they would part ways with Silvagni immediately. But it's St Kilda.

I think there will be time next year when he quietly stands down to deal with 'personal issues'. Probably around the time the appeals will be heard.

 

[Munich]

Why? Since when have we punished parents for their adult childrens problems?

Has nothing to do with St Kilda.

His handling of this has been shocking.

 

[Lavender Bushranger]

Unfortunately I have been in the victim’s situation. No one ever believes women when they’ve been r*ped! And… this is just another case of that playing out… sad

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He was convicted wasn't he?

 

[10571z]

Any truth to the rumour he was expelled from Xavier?

 

[RustyShacklefordFalcon]

SOS & Ross are the perfect pair, cut from the same scummy cloth.

Shocking statement from SOS today and shows how out of touch that family really is. My thoughts go out to the victim.

 

[BillyElliott]

Unfortunately I have been in the victim’s situation. No one ever believes women when they’ve been r*ped! And… this is just another case of that playing out… sad

He's been found guilty.

Other than his parents, I haven't seen anyone suggest the victim wasn't telling the truth.

 

[CrumpetAgony]

Why? Since when have we punished parents for their adult childrens problems?

Has nothing to do with St Kilda.

Well his son is a convicted rapist and he is publicly proclaiming his innocence. As a high profile employee of your cub, you don’t think that might be an issue and a distraction for your club?

 

[jwikked]

His handling of this has been shocking.

Not really. He's supporting his son.
He's not going to get everything right, nor should anyone expect him to.

 

[jwikked]

Well his son is a convicted rapist and he is publicly proclaiming his innocence. As a high profile employee of your cub, you don’t think that might be an issue and a distraction for your club?

No, it's not an issue that he's supporting his son, and choosing to believe his son. Not an issue at all.

I'd be surprised if you wouldn't do the the same, in his position. It's easy to cast judgement on him from a distance, though.

 

[Seedsfan]

Ofc they wanted the suppression order to continue...

It's there to protect the perpetrator more than the victim.

No it protects people who weren’t involved. Tom didn’t avoid conviction because of the suppression order

 

[1970crow]

The thing is while false accusations exist they are definitely quite rare. Most men who are accused of rape are usually guilty of it, even if it can't always be proven beyond a shadow of a doubt in a court of law.

I remember you from the Bruhn thread.

 

[Kappa]

Can understand the Silvagni family backing their son, but not sure it was wise to come out and make that statement. Better off just saying the matter is still being dealt with in the courts, and they won't be commenting at this time.

They're in an extremely emotional and distressing time, if you were in that situation you wouldn't be saying the perfect things either

 

[CFC_#17]

Based on the evidence I have read, I can’t understand how he just didn’t plead guilty.