Roger Rogerson
Brownlow Medallist
That’s a ripper post cryptor . My thoughts exactly too.There’s some key differences. You dressing up as a Sydney Sweeney isn’t likely to be interpreted as having any meaningful social commentary. Safe to assume you and her don’t know each other, she’s not going to be aware you did it and no one in her industry circles are going to know or care that you did even if you were doing it in a mean-spirited way (I’m sure you weren’t).
Holmes dressing up as Caro hits all those things. They know each other or at least know of each other. All his teammates know her/of her. All her colleagues and AFL public observing know her and him. The media are routinely invited to come down and see the players arrive in their costumes. There is expectation that the public will see it.
This doesn’t automatically make it a negative thing. He just needs to be careful to do so respectfully. Apparently he texted her to inform her he’d be dressing up as her (not sure if permission was sought or approval given) so he was on the right path at least.
The issue of misogyny comes from him being photoed dressed as her and then having a caption about how Caro has never looked better (…than a man in low effort drag) shared publicly - I think this might have been Bailey’s doing rather than Max though.
Women in our society and particularly within public facing industries like the media have way more unnecessary scrutiny on their appearances than their male counterparts. It is 100% misogyny to belittle Caro on the basis of her appearance. I’m sure Caro has a thick skin for this type of criticism but there are plenty of other women in the industry that would be - and I know for a fact are impacted seeing this type of thing happen again and again, then brushed off as “just a bit of light hearted fun” or “boys being boys”.
Hope that didn’t come across as preachy or anything. Just trying to share some perspective that I’ve come to understand myself.
How the penny hasn’t dropped in this day and age for these imbociles is staggering. And the clubs radar hasn’t been ready for this given their history with their MM dressups.
I was so hoping the karma bus hit Geelong on GF day for their culture and it then harder than I had asked for.









