Cheating on your partner

[Mighty_Blues]

My wife cheated on me 3 and a half years ago and it was only 6 months after we were married. She told me the next day. What happened was that we were at bridey orileys and she wondered off to find her friend. Some guy came up to her, started getting on with her and took her down stairs to some blocked off area and had sex with her.

My wife said it was a drunken mistake. But 2 months ago she did it again and slept with someone from her work after going to a work function where she got drunk. They ended up getting a hotel room together!!!

I tried to make it work cause I loved her but it was too hard. I kept yelling at her and ended up driving her away! She reckons the sex wasn't very good and the fact that I did nightshift/dayshift caused us to drift apart. But it was mainly the sex. I suffer from not getting errections consistantly due to alot of pre ejaculation. I never knew I could get help for it but I am now, even though my mariage has been destroyed! I just wish she had of communicated with me and told me the truth and tried to get help instead of hurting me the other way.

There goes my house, wife and lifestyle that I had. But in the end I guess I'm better off without someone like that.

 

[Roos rule]

I've cheated on my missus quite a few times. Probably 10 or 12 times all up. Don't get me wrong I still love her, but I only do it for the sex. For me, the sex is separate to the love of being with her.

She' has never found out and I don't plan on letting her know. I caught her cheating once and I said it was okay as long as you can organise a threesome for me with her and one of her friends. She organised one out of guilt and now we have threesome's constantly, because she wants to please me after she felt guilty about cheating on me! And I still go out and get other chicks to boot!

So, yeah I've done it all the time and as long as there is no emotional attachment, I have no problem with it. I figure what she doesn't know won't hurt her.

 

[CURVE]

Originally posted by Roos rule
I've cheated on my missus quite a few times. Probably 10 or 12 times all up. Don't get me wrong I still love her, but I only do it for the sex. For me, the sex is separate to the love of being with her.

She' has never found out and I don't plan on letting her know. I caught her cheating once and I said it was okay as long as you can organise a threesome for me with her and one of her friends. She organised one out of guilt and now we have threesome's constantly, because she wants to please me after she felt guilty about cheating on me! And I still go out and get other chicks to boot!

So, yeah I've done it all the time and as long as there is no emotional attachment, I have no problem with it. I figure what she doesn't know won't hurt her.

You may not be able to perform like Carey on the field, but you giving it a go off the field. Good to see someone follow in the footsteps of our once fine Captain.

I caught my wife cheating on me once, but it didn't worry me as I was cheating on her with the same woman. She has been living with us for the last eight years. And just to add to the sickness of this situation, she is the younger sister of my first fiancee, who was also my wife's best friend.

 

[Joel]

Originally posted by Roos rule

So, yeah I've done it all the time and as long as there is no emotional attachment, I have no problem with it. I figure what she doesn't know won't hurt her.

You are a ****ING LOSER!

You are scum.

 

[Samos]

Roos rule that is the most soft****ly and cowardly thing to do.

With regards to the first post, cheating is not acceptable under any circumstances. There is no justification in cheating.

No matter how bad your partner is, bitchy, annoying or just a horrible person you still do not cheat. If you must, you break up with them, and then move on.

Cheating is a big no no in my books, it's soft and a cowardly act.

 

[TheBloods]

I think Roos Rule has been reading a few too many Dear Playboy letters...

Actually, I just noticed that a few other people seem to be confusing that fiction with reality too...

 

[supa-gal]

Originally posted by Roos rule
So, yeah I've done it all the time and as long as there is no emotional attachment, I have no problem with it. I figure what she doesn't know won't hurt her.

It is people like you who give guys a bad rep.

 

[Samos]

Originally posted by NMWBloods
I think Roos Rule has been reading a few too many Dear Playboy letters...

Actually, I just noticed that a few other people seem to be confusing that fiction with reality too...

I swear - mental telepathy.. i was just about to say he's posts are formed from what he'd like to be doing.

Probably a hunch back sun deprived poor boy behind a computer monitor. It's very sad.

 

[mantis]

A quick look at his profile, shows that he is taking the p**s.

 

[Slax]

It's not cheating if she doesn't find out.

Really I think that everyone is tempted at some stage during a long-term relationship and temptations are part of human nature. It is what is acted on that counts.

I do believe though in one thing, young couples need to experience other people before getting married to their high school sweetheart, otherwise they will have to deal with the cheating at somestage. People with very few partners before they get married are more likely to cheat than those with more. (Actually is true)

 

[windbag]

Re: Re: Cheating on your partner

Originally posted by NMWBloods
Never!

Very catholic opinion. But it becomes bloody unacceptable when you are having it off with strangers whose sexual history you know nothing about and then go home and have unprotected sex with a wife or partner.

The partner becomes the unwitting victim and on this one Bloods we are like minded, the only correct answer is never. Anyone who cheats is scum!

 

[Spidergirl~RiCkChiCk]

Re: Re: Re: Cheating on your partner

Originally posted by windbag
Very catholic opinion. But it becomes bloody unacceptable when you are having it off with strangers whose sexual history you know nothing about and then go home and have unprotected sex with a wife or partner.

The partner becomes the unwitting victim and on this one Bloods we are like minded, the only correct answer is never. Anyone who cheats is scum!

should be a law against it i reckon...is there one actually?

Silly thing to say but if i had aids tho i'd prob go screw everyone i hated :evil smile:

 

[windbag]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Cheating on your partner

Originally posted by Spidergirl~RiCkChiCk
should be a law against it i reckon...is there one actually?

Silly thing to say but if i had aids tho i'd prob go screw everyone i hated :evil smile:

Try being an innocent partner of an overnight stand and maybe you will end up with AIDs but your comment is bloody shocking and sickening.

 

[eagleskickass]

This is the problem that comes about when sex is solely viewed as a means of pleasure, rather than more than that.

 

[otaku]

Originally posted by eagleskickass
This is the problem that comes about when sex is solely viewed as a means of pleasure, rather than more than that.

and what is sex then?

a means of pleasure, and a way to propagate the species.

If you eliminate one of those (throught contraception) what is left?

 

[eagleskickass]

A discussion for another night as i just cant be bothered getting into an argument that wont change either of our views tonight

 

[windbag]

Originally posted by otaku
and what is sex then?

a means of pleasure, and a way to propagate the species.

If you eliminate one of those (throught contraception) what is left?

but stay faithful if you have a partner they have no idea what you are dragging home in the blood system.

 

[otaku]

Originally posted by windbag
but stay faithful if you have a partner they have no idea what you are dragging home in the blood system.

or practise safe sex

 

[carn tigez]

Lol, interesting thread. What are people's thoughts on cheating 9 years later?

 

[triplejdude]

I tried to make it work cause I loved her but it was too hard. I kept yelling at her and ended up driving her away! She reckons the sex wasn't very good and the fact that I did nightshift/dayshift caused us to drift apart. But it was mainly the sex. I suffer from not getting errections consistantly due to alot of pre ejaculation. I never knew I could get help for it but I am now, even though my mariage has been destroyed! I just wish she had of communicated with me and told me the truth and tried to get help instead of hurting me the other way.

Posting this on BigFooty, o lawd.

 

[Bennett.]

what an odd bump!

 

[carn tigez]

I was gonna start a thread on it, then searched and found this. It's an interesting debate, I mean most people believe cheating is wrong but the primary reason I think is the deceit.

Is a 2 week break in a relationship ok?

 

[muttweed]

Posting this on BigFooty, o lawd.

Not everyone cares about their e-rep, pal.

On topic, cheating is effing stupid and should be done under no circumstances. Have some respect for your partner and especially yourself. Keep it between your thirsty legs, knobwasher.

 

[muttweed]

Though, I should probably tell my bf I'm in love with Jimmy Bartel...don't think it's fair to string him on any longer

 

[Stratton_Gun]

Though, I should probably tell my bf I'm in love with Jimmy Bartel...don't think it's fair to string him on any longer

No chance JB will ever be involved in your sex life though