The Bro Code - Where do you stand

[DavoTheDasher]

Was talking to mates ester day and we got on the topic of the bro code and what is acceptable under said code. i slept with a girl in a long term relationship over the weekend.

I didn't know the guy and she initiated after I had pulled away when she originally told me she had a boyfriend. Two of my mates both in LTRs themselves said it was clear breach of the bro code and a dog act. I maintain I did nothing wrong and the only person who did was the girl. Where do you stand on who should feel bad in the above scenario and do I have any responsibility to aware the boyfriend?

 

[M Malice]

Was talking to mates ester day and we got on the topic of the bro code and what is acceptable under said code. i slept with a girl in a long term relationship over the weekend.

I didn't know the guy and she initiated after I had pulled away when she originally told me she had a boyfriend. Two of my mates both in LTRs themselves said it was clear breach of the bro code and a dog act. I maintain I did nothing wrong and the only person who did was the girl. Where do you stand on who should feel bad in the above scenario and do I have any responsibility to aware the boyfriend?

nobody should feel bad if you and the lady in question are of sound mind and consenting adults. by the sound of it she would have done it before so do the guy a favor and go and tell him. on second thoughts send him a txt or the tape of the incident with your distinguishing features blacked out.

 

[SwampCreature]

You are a massive campaigner

 

[SwampCreature]

Just read OP for first time.

You are def a massive campaigner.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

nobody should feel bad if you and the lady in question are of sound mind and consenting adults. by the sound of it she would have done it before so do the guy a favor and go and tell him. on second thoughts send him a txt or the tape of the incident with your distinguishing features blacked out.

See this was my thoughts too. Live in a different state so will make him aware via facebook

 

[Cmarsh]

Was talking to mates ester day and we got on the topic of the bro code and what is acceptable under said code. i slept with a girl in a long term relationship over the weekend.

I didn't know the guy and she initiated after I had pulled away when she originally told me she had a boyfriend. Two of my mates both in LTRs themselves said it was clear breach of the bro code and a dog act. I maintain I did nothing wrong and the only person who did was the girl. Where do you stand on who should feel bad in the above scenario and do I have any responsibility to aware the boyfriend?

So besotted with your (ahem) "achievement" you've decided to spread the brag from the Bay to GD.

edit : BTW you both should feel bad. I think that's pretty obvious.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

So besotted with your (ahem) "achievement" you've decided to spread the brag from the Bay to GD.

Genuine question on a topic I thought worthy of discussion. No bragging in the OP at all

 

[Moonwatcher]

If someone claimed that their relationship/marriage was over or that their partner was cheating on them I would have less issue with it. Probably something I would regret if she wasn't planning on ending her current relationship.

 

[Gough]

I too have had sex.

 

[kickazz]

There is probably not an easier root to get than one with an attached but unsatisfied person.

Ultimately if it's consensual I suppose it's OK. Everyone sets their bar at a different place.

It takes courage to end a relationship that is not working. It takes courage to be single for a while before finding something better, if that is what you are looking for. Cowards cheat.

Enabling that behaviour is not something to be proud of, but not particularly shameful either. Enjoy the root, but leave it at that. I've had mates in your position who ended up getting together with the girl. You can guess what subsequently happened.

 

[IKnowtheDog]

Marshall Erikksen is the go to person on whteher any part of the Bro code is breached

 

[Stratton_Gun]

Its not you're mate so not your responsibility. She's at fault not you

 

[Gough]

Its not you're mate so not your responsibility. She's at fault not you

Happy IWD to you too SG.

 

[Moonwatcher]

I too have had sex.

What's it like?

 

[IKnowtheDog]

Its not you're mate so not your responsibility. She's at fault not you

yet in another thread you clearly stated you hated cutting another person's lawn

 

[kickazz]

Its not you're mate so not your responsibility. She's at fault not you

But if she goes out of her way to tell you she's attached then she is clearly testing where your morals lie too. The decision to cheat becomes partly yours.

Agree with you totally if she kept the relationship to her self and just wanted to bang.

 

[Hoffy95]

Dog act but something I would do.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Its not you're mate so not your responsibility. She's at fault not you

My thoughts exactly

 

[DavoTheDasher]

There is probably not an easier root to get than one with an attached but unsatisfied person.

Ultimately if it's consensual I suppose it's OK. Everyone sets their bar at a different place.

It takes courage to end a relationship that is not working. It takes courage to be single for a while before finding something better, if that is what you are looking for. Cowards cheat.

Enabling that behaviour is not something to be proud of, but not particularly shameful either. Enjoy the root, but leave it at that. I've had mates in your position who ended up getting together with the girl. You can guess what subsequently happened.

Agree. No way I would ever consider a long term relationship with a girl who did that with me but I enjoyed it for what it was

 

[DavoTheDasher]

I too have had sex.

Congrats! Any thoughts on the topic at hand?

 

[Gough]

I'm a socialist, share, and share alike.

 

[Doss]

Marshall Erikksen is the go to person on whteher any part of the Bro code is breached

Bro Mitzvah!

 

[Keys]

Dog act but something I would do.

Doggie style ?

 

[Hoffy95]

Doggie style ?

Not if she's in a relationship m8. Have some respect.

 

[FlapFlap]

would tell the biddy to gagf, says a lot about her if she wants to cheat