The Bro Code - Where do you stand

[DavoTheDasher]

Why did you ask then? Oh, because you got your pathetic ass laid and thought that was worthy of a cyber brag

High 5...

No need to get melty. There has been roughly 50/50 support saying all clear or dog act so worth the discussion

 

[Marklar_33]

No need to get melty. There has been roughly 50/50 support saying all clear or dog act so worth the discussion

Yeah, 50% is every other poster telling you how shit of a bloke you are, and the other 50% is you defending yourself

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Haven't got one at the moment, but have been on the receiving end of it in the past thanks to c***s like yourself.

I fixed the bloke up, just like I hope her bloke fixes you up good and properly.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Yeah, 50% is every other poster telling you how shit of a bloke you are, and the other 50% is you defending yourself

Suggest you count again

 

[The Passenger]

The responsibility lies on the person in the relationship. And if the shit hits the fan then it's between the two in the relationship. I've never agreed with the third party getting dragged into the subsequent shit storm, but I can see why it happens.

If, however, you know the partner of the person then that is indeed a dog act, and the level of dog is a direct relation to how close friends you are.

I do find it interesting that most of the thread has centred on what happens when a women cheats on her man as if that should always be completely forbidden. Regardless of who is cheating on who, it's a dog act.

 

[Scotland]

Haven't got one at the moment, but have been on the receiving end of it in the past thanks to c***s like yourself.

I fixed the bloke up, just like I hope her bloke fixes you up good and properly.

I don't get this mentality.

I'm not advocating violence against women but if your wife/girlfriend cheats on you then your anger should be directed at her.

The whole 'I'm going to find the stranger who did this and bash him' thing seems stupid to me. Grown women make their own decisions.

 

[Cruyff14]

OP clearly cannot accept he has a poor moral compass. Absolutely plain as day.

 

[hazard]

Was talking to mates ester day and we got on the topic of the bro code and what is acceptable under said code. i slept with a girl in a long term relationship over the weekend.

I didn't know the guy and she initiated after I had pulled away when she originally told me she had a boyfriend. Two of my mates both in LTRs themselves said it was clear breach of the bro code and a dog act. I maintain I did nothing wrong and the only person who did was the girl. Where do you stand on who should feel bad in the above scenario and do I have any responsibility to aware the boyfriend?

What kind of an idiot gets into a relationship nowadays? You didn't do anything wrong, I hope her boyfriend wisens up though.

 

[craigos]

If my gf ever cheated on me I wouldn't get angry with her, I'd just be like, jog on, take what you like (not the TV) and don't ever speak to me again.
I would hold nothing against the other person who was involved unless they were a friend, in which case I'd call Billy and ask for advice.

 

[CM86]

She said he is a Melbourne supporter so no matter how big he is he would fold like a deck of cards as soon as you got physical with him

Far out... did you have sex, or just talk about her boyfriend?


Also, just a heads up.
She said "Cousin" not boyfriend... and "Norf melb", not melb.
Brad won't care.

 

[DemonTim]

Solid logic here
Come online asking people's opinions about if you did something wrong
Get told you did something wrong
Respond that you don't care and don't agree

If you didn't care and thought you were guilt free, you wouldn't have posted

Although, i'm going to call bullshit on the whole thing

 

[DemonTim]

She said he is a Melbourne supporter so no matter how big he is he would fold like a deck of cards as soon as you got physical with him

Ron Barassi says hi

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Solid logic here
Come online asking people's opinions about if you did something wrong
Get told you did something wrong
Respond that you don't care and don't agree

If you didn't care and thought you were guilt free, you wouldn't have posted

Although, i'm going to call bullshit on the whole thing

As mentioned in the OP there are some wildly different opinions amongst my mates and the same diverse range here. Worthy discussion I thought but I'm still ok with my choices.

Although now you have called bullshit on it I guess I better forget it ever happened and conform to your view of reality

 

[DemonTim]

As mentioned in the OP there are some wildly different opinions amongst my mates and the same diverse range here. Worthy discussion I thought but I'm still ok with my choices.

Although now you have called bullshit on it I guess I better forget it ever happened and conform to your view of reality

Sorry, you're right. People on the internet just don't lie, we should trust everything we read on these forums

You're not discussing, your only rebuttal is "i don't know him so i don't owe him anything", you wanted justification that what you did was okay, pretty simple.

You've managed to hit every stereotype of people talking themselves up online:
- Pretend you got laid
- Use fake tough guy talk about bashing people

 

[craigos]

The bro code is non existent is small towns, those places are ruthless.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Sorry, you're right. People on the internet just don't lie, we should trust everything we read on these forums

You're not discussing, your only rebuttal is "i don't know him so i don't owe him anything", you wanted justification that what you did was okay, pretty simple.

You've managed to hit every stereotype of people talking themselves up online:
- Pretend you got laid
- Use fake tough guy talk about bashing people

Look at you internet tough guy talking about others being internet tough guys! I have debated my stance in the thread numerous times and your welcome to tell me what I owe to the boyfriend I've never met of a girl I slept with.

You seem deeply insecure about something that's happening in your life that you feel the need to attempt to shit on an everyday story someone posted for discussion. Did your Mrs stray too or did you hear she did but you took her back after she convinced you that someone made the story up

 

[DavoTheDasher]

The bro code is non existent is small towns, those places are ruthless.

Agree. I grew up in a small town where there was 2 degrees of separation. If you stuck to the bro code you would have never got laid there

 

[HBF]

would tell the biddy to gagf, says a lot about her if she wants to cheat

This. Has the potential to end up in a messy situation.

 

[DemonTim]

Look at you internet tough guy talking about others being internet tough guys! I have debated my stance in the thread numerous times and your welcome to tell me what I owe to the boyfriend I've never met of a girl I slept with.

You seem deeply insecure about something that's happening in your life that you feel the need to attempt to shit on an everyday story someone posted for discussion. Did your Mrs stray too or did you hear she did but you took her back after she convinced you that someone made the story up

I pointed out how you fit internet stereotypes. You spoke of physical violence, and put up bravado in response to suggested violence against you. That's the stereotype. Not sure how me pointing that out is "internet tough guy"? Is it not "tough guy" to point out false bravado?

The second part is just psuedo psychobabble rubbish, and showing that you do care about the topic. Attempting to demean the lives of those who disagree with you seems your go to.

You seem to throw around this word "owe" as if it means something, from a social convention stand point you have done something wrong, whether you decide that you adhere to socially conventional morals is up to you. It's strange that you want to hear if it breaches social conventions from strangers online, while saying that you have done nothing wrong.

It's also strange, that you feel because he is a stranger there is no issue with it, while deciding that the people you should discuss the topic with are strangers.

I'd say from a more general sense, those who don't care about "strangers" relationships, tend to not adhere to many other morals, slippery slope and all that.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

I pointed out how you fit internet stereotypes. You spoke of physical violence, and put up bravado in response to suggested violence against you. That's the stereotype. Not sure how me pointing that out is "internet tough guy"? Is it not "tough guy" to point out false bravado?

The second part is just psuedo psychobabble rubbish, and showing that you do care about the topic. Attempting to demean the lives of those who disagree with you seems your go to.

You seem to throw around this word "owe" as if it means something, from a social convention stand point you have done something wrong, whether you decide that you adhere to socially conventional morals is up to you. It's strange that you want to hear if it breaches social conventions from strangers online, while saying that you have done nothing wrong.

It's also strange, that you feel because he is a stranger there is no issue with it, while deciding that the people you should discuss the topic with are strangers.

I'd say from a more general sense, those who don't care about "strangers" relationships, tend to not adhere to many other morals, slippery slope and all that.

Your mrs wasn't in Sydney last weekend was she?

 

[DemonTim]

Your mrs wasn't in Sydney last weekend was she?

Why would anyone willingly go to Sydney? Let alone sleep with someone they met there? Terrible place/10

Edit: Sorry just ran your post through google translate, came back with "If I keep being snarky maybe this guilt will go away and everyone online will give me the recognition I apparently require for "sleeping" with someone"

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Why would anyone willingly go to Sydney? Let alone sleep with someone they met there? Terrible place/10

Edit: Sorry just ran your post through google translate, came back with "If I keep being snarky maybe this guilt will go away and everyone online will give me the recognition I apparently require for "sleeping" with someone"

1) Compared to Adelaide Sydney is Las Vegas
2) lol at your bleeding anoos. Why are you so desparate to rubbish a non remarkable story?

 

[DemonTim]

1) Compared to Adelaide Sydney is Las Vegas
2) lol at your bleeding anoos. Why are you so desparate to rubbish a non remarkable story?

Wait, so in your logic, you posting this online to discuss means you don't care about the topic, but me pointing out your need for validation and that you're probably lying is "desperate"?

Are you new to the internet? People make up non-remarkable stories almost constantly, did you expect some sort of standing ovation?

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Wait, so in your logic, you posting this online to discuss means you don't care about the topic, but me pointing out your need for validation and that you're probably lying is "desperate"?

Are you new to the internet? People make up non-remarkable stories almost constantly, did you expect some sort of standing ovation?

This is now becoming embarrassing for you!

 

[DemonTim]

This is now becoming embarrassing for you!

I'm unsure how. Seems you put a lot of weight into how strangers on the internet feel about you.

I'm yet to see you respond to a point made to yourself in a meaningful manner.

Sorry, I'll respond in kind "Ehmahgerd, y u getting so offended over da interwebz bro"