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JUH has a younger brother in our NGADoes Marra have siblings who could be in the draft pipeline (perhaps even as NGA prospects)?
I wonder what sort of effect this very public drama is having on them and any dreams they may have about pursuing a career in footy.

Does Marra have siblings who could be in the draft pipeline (perhaps even as NGA prospects)?
I wonder what sort of effect this very public drama is having on them and any dreams they may have about pursuing a career in footy.
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I'm with you and the coach on this one, I'd much rather talk about the players that are actually here.There are no winners here.
Not JUH.
Not BF posters and their posting, on either side of the debate. (My opinion, of course.)
Not his family.
Not his team mates.
Not his club.
The only ones seemingly gaining anything atm (debatable if that's "winning"), are the media, and his "mates".
And that's about all I have to contribute. If JUH ever pulls on a RWB jumper for a game again, I'll comment in the relevant thread/s.
Anyhoo, catch you all elsewhere on this board.![]()
Unless I've missed it, it hasn't been stated anywhere by the club, Jamarra or any journos it's "mental health". It's only been reported as "personal issues". The club clearly stated mental health in statements in the past with players like Cloke, Boyd and Smith but haven't here. I think it's safe to assume in this situation personal issues doesn't automatically equate to mental health issue.I'm no expert but we as a society clearly have a long way to go in understanding mental health.
Not automatic, but it's been shown repeatedly in research that substance abuse (as has been alleged) and poor mental health are usually closely aligned.
Generally people don't go off the rails for no reason.
There's a difference between not being good enough for AFL level football and substance abuse. Are you saying that's the reason why Clarke didn't make it? Or was he just not a good enough player? We don't know so I wouldn't comment.There are so many other factors for substance abuse and for going off the rails.
Environmental factors are a major factor.
There is as much chance it’s the environment he’s chosen to place himself in that has led to his choices to fall into substance abuse and go off the rails.
I don’t see anyone using mental health as an excuse for Charlie Clarke not making it. And JUH has placed himself in the identical environment to him. I also don’t see anyone using mental health for the entire friendship group JUH has atm. Surely they are only using substances and using JUHs money due to mental health too.
There's a difference between not being good enough for AFL level football and substance abuse. Are you saying that's the reason why Clarke didn't make it? Or was he just not a good enough player? We don't know so I wouldn't comment.
On your second example, you don't know his friends' situations. Are they also throwing away their careers like JUH? Or are they able to party and continue operate in society, as most people can?
You're making a heap of assumptions in this post, and you're also equating using substances and abusing substances.
Yes, there are lots of other factors that contribute you're right on that. Even if mental health wasn't the driving factor (which again, statistically it most likely was), it is now if what has been spoken about is true.
There is so much wrong with this post that I don't even know where to begin. How about you give it a rest on this thread for a while?Clarke has been brought up multiple times in this thread as introducing JUH to this friendship group and into his current lifestyle.
Why does whether they are throwing away careers also even matter or dictate that it must be mental health?
Let’s remove substance and say it’s partying through alcohol for an example you and a friend go out every weekend and get trashed. Your body can’t handle it as much as your friend and your job is more physical than your friends, so every Monday you call in sick, your friend goes to work. You get the sack your friend still has his job.
You’ve thrown your career away and he hasn’t does that automatically mean you have mental health issues but he does not?
Yes I’ve made assumptions but so is every single person who is saying it’s mental health. Not a single person on this board is likely to have the full answer.
I don’t accept this is all stemming from mental health and I find the JUH situation and mental health excuse pretty poor.
I think it diminishes people’s views of mental health as a real problem. As someone that has lost two people to suicide and have coached youth football and had nights on the phone to players contemplating harm due to their mental health I think JUH is making a mockery of a real problem
Just quietly, I think Tom Morris needs some help.He needs to want the help
Yes but you for some baffling reason brought up his career ending and linked it to mental health. So you're assuming he has substance abuse issues and that's why it ended? I'm saying he could have just been not good enough at football for AFL. We don't know. Nobody referenced mental health for Clarke not making it, just like nobody does for 99% of players that get delisted.Clarke has been brought up multiple times in this thread as introducing JUH to this friendship group and into his current lifestyle.
It doesn't dictate it (that's so black and white), but people that just like having some beers on the weekend, without any other issues, can usually manage to hold down a job. Where it intertwines with substance abuse and affecting other aspects of your life or others' lives, mental health is usually a large driver. This is just what all the current research and understanding shows. Again, I don't have a phd on the topic but it's pretty well common knowledge (I thought)Why does whether they are throwing away careers also even matter or dictate that it must be mental health?
No it doesn't automatically (again, so black and white). In general though, someone who is well adjusted and in a good head space would change their behavior to suit their circumstances. Calling in sick every Monday is not a sign of someone that is well adjusted and in a good head space. Partying is affecting their life/livelihood which would most likely indicate something else is going on.Let’s remove substance and say it’s partying through alcohol for an example you and a friend go out every weekend and get trashed. Your body can’t handle it as much as your friend and your job is more physical than your friends, so every Monday you call in sick, your friend goes to work. You get the sack your friend still has his job.
You’ve thrown your career away and he hasn’t does that automatically mean you have mental health issues but he does not?
I'm sorry you've had to experience that.I don’t accept this is all stemming from mental health and I find the JUH situation and mental health excuse pretty poor.
I think it diminishes people’s views of mental health as a real problem. As someone that has lost two people to suicide and have coached youth football and had nights on the phone to players contemplating harm due to their mental health I think JUH is making a mockery of a real problem
Why are people clinging to this being a mental health issue?
Since when is bad life choices automatically a result of mental health, the term as become so broad now that it’s used as a catch all for when ever some takes a stupid path in life and it’s at the point that it diminishes and devalues the term for those people that actually have mental health issues.
Now JUH has made choices of who he wants to spend his time with, he’s decided he doesn’t want to fulfil his employment obligations and would rather hit the gym or box with his mates then get on the piss or more and through his own words and requests has wanted to play. He basically wants to just rock up and play each week but not train.
Now in a few years time when he’s at best playing bush league (as that’s the only play that attitude flys) the moneys dried up, the parties over and these mates are gone cause he isn’t paying for everything any more.
Then mental health issues will likely arise.
Right now he is making a mockery of mental health for those that actually suffer from it
Why are you discounting the possibility?
Especially when his mental health issues are the reasons that both the club and the league have cited as being behind his recalcitrant absence from the game.
There is so much wrong with this post that I don't even know where to begin. How about you give it a rest on this thread for a while?
Yes but you for some baffling reason brought up his career ending and linked it to mental health. So you're assuming he has substance abuse issues and that's why it ended? I'm saying he could have just been not good enough at football for AFL. We don't know. Nobody referenced mental health for Clarke not making it, just like nobody does for 99% of players that get delisted.
You seem to be arguing because nobody referenced for Clarke, they shouldn't for JUH. I'm saying you don't even know a) why Clarke was delisted, and b) whether their circumstances are even remotely similar. I'm not going to comment further on Clarke.
It doesn't dictate it (that's so black and white), but people that just like having some beers on the weekend, without any other issues, can usually manage to hold down a job. Where it intertwines with substance abuse and affecting other aspects of your life or others' lives, mental health is usually a large driver. This is just what all the current research and understanding shows. Again, I don't have a phd on the topic but it's pretty well common knowledge (I thought)
No it doesn't automatically (again, so black and white). In general though, someone who is well adjusted and in a good head space would change their behavior to suit their circumstances. Calling in sick every Monday is not a sign of someone that is well adjusted and in a good head space. Partying is affecting their life/livelihood which would most likely indicate something else is going on.
I'm sorry you've had to experience that.
However, I think your definition/understanding of mental health is quite narrow. There's no one path people follow or definition to fit into.
You've posted eight times on this thread in less than 24 hours, saying the same thing over and over. And it adds nothing other than your incredibly negative and closed-minded opinion. Keep it up and cop a thread ban.Unless I’ve broken a rule or been disrespectful to another poster I can comment on any thread I like.
I’ve engaged with other posters respectfully with us having differing views.
You seem to come at people in your mod role only if their opinion differs from yours
Unless I’ve broken a rule or been disrespectful to another poster I can comment on any thread I like.
I’ve engaged with other posters respectfully with us having differing views.
You seem to come at people in your mod role only if their opinion differs from yours
You've posted eight times on this thread in less than 24 hours, saying the same thing over and over. And it adds nothing other than your incredibly negative and closed-minded opinion. Keep it up and cop a thread ban.
Nearly every post you make here is against the site rules. You don't appreciate how lenient we've been with you (and a number of others on here). Read the room and tone it down, or you can take your obsession elsewhere.