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I have never said wisdom isn't earned over time. I said that time itself isn't the only experience you need to call yourself wiser than those who come after you.
Everyone possesses some sort of wisdom from the beginning, that's common sense. But who is to say this wisdom is valid, or proceeds all others? - it's relative because not everyone, over time, specialises in every single situation which may arise on this world, whether it be in the future or the past.
What I mean by using time wisely, is that you need to observe time as it goes on. Just because you happen to be 45 years old, does that mean you have experienced the lifestyle of a soldier?... studied Sociology, or Psychology for that matter?... lived in a troubled home? - been involved in a car accident?
Maturity, ethics of life, manners, ect; are all a given when it comes to age, but that does not mean you are more experienced in every single matter at present or the past.
It isn't that hard to fathom, and you don't need to play games in doing so.
If you are still confused, then maybe this conversation isn't for you.
I don't recall saying that. I think you just assumed I did. Or perhaps made a generalisation...
The fact of the matter is through age you are not more experienced in every single matter however it stands to reason that you have had more life experiences and therefor are more experienced in more areas of life.
I think there is a great deal you appreciate and understand once you get a little older. I am 25 so depending on where you draw your generational lines I can be construed as Gen Y.
Through the passing of time I have experienced more and more. Schooling, Post secondary education, graduation, car accidents, relationships, break ups, deaths, entering the work force, beginning full time employment, moving and many more. I am very much aware that as time continues to progress I will develop more understandings of the world around me. Things like building a house and marriage, perhaps getting the sack or changing career... who knows.
With time comes more experiences and as a result greater knowledge of how to deal with and react to certain situations. That could be referred to as wisdom.
I have never met a person over the age of 30 who does not look back on their teens and early 20s and say something along the lines of "If I knew back then what I know now" or "I thought I knew it all back then but what I know now does not even compare"...
I myself look back at my life as a 16-20 year old and think about how ignorant I was to so much of what life brings.










