Family & Relationships How do you get over a girl?

[footyfreak]

im going to tough it out, she is leaving to go to another store in a month, once she is gone i will delete everything associated with her straight away, facebook, mobile number etc. She will most def ask "whats going on why have you deleted me off facebook?" and i will tell her. Dont care of the ramifications at work with her girl friends, my job is the priority end of story. I will be over her completely within a week or 2 after she leaves and im quite confident of that. Seeing her everyday is the only reason i havent fully gotten over her.

You need to PM a poster on here called H2F. Being a fellow Hawks supporter, i'm sure he would be willing to help you.

A couple of sessions of his wisdom and you will be a (new) man!

SRZ

 

[Wish Wellingtons]

Move to a different continent.

 

[wce4premiership]

she wants to be mates because there's something in it for her ... there's nothing in it for you, delete her, don't respond if she asks why.

 

[raff23]

she wants to be mates because there's something in it for her ... there's nothing in it for you, delete her, don't respond if she asks why.

id be more than happy to be mates with her if i didnt hook up and sleep with her, she has been with guys from work ( different stores) before so its nothing new to her so she knows how to act if things dont work out, me on the other hand have never experienced this before. shes a great girl dont get the wrong impression here, she and another girl from work actually went out and bought me a couple of shirts for my bday a few weeks ago, she would have no idea i still feel weird about things between us because i have acted as i normally do, she would back off and give me space at work if she knew the truth, she doesnt msg me or write on my facebook so its not like she is giving me false hope. She is acting like a mate. Having said that for my own sake i need to do what i said i would do, her feelings dont matter as unfortunate as that is.

 

[raff23]

to be perfectly honest she wouldnt even know i deleted her off facebook unless i told her, thats pretty much were the interest levels are. Shes an independant girl used to doing things for herself so she doesnt get attached that easily, it really shouldnt be that hard to move the heck on knowing she isnt interested anymore in that way at all but everyone is different i guess.

 

[PrinceDaniel]

You need to PM a poster on here called H2F. Being a fellow Hawks supporter, i'm sure he would be willing to help you.

A couple of sessions of his wisdom and you will be a (new) man!

SRZ

Just buy a $400 shirt instead, or some rohypnol.

 

[Gus]

I found killing them is an easy way for me to blow off steam after a break up.

 

[Coolangatta]

Here is the bottom line. You don't get over a girl that you love. You can only do this if you meet another girl that you love more. Otherwise, you have to deal with the fact that you can't let her go.

Socialising, working, studying, one night stands - they'll make you feel good, but escapism is only a temporary solution. Try to turn your pain into something constructive.

 

[Gus]

Looks like I'll be taking a new interest in this thread.

 

[Wish Wellingtons]

Looks like I'll be taking a new interest in this thread.

Welcome to the free world...

 

[coke_zero]

Looks like I'll be taking a new interest in this thread.

not Gus!!

 

[Gus]

Welcome to the free world...

18 months since I have seen it. It is weird and new to me.

not Gus!!

Sadly, yes.

 

[raff23]

made a silly decision last nite, went to this girl's best mates bday drinks thing at a bar in the city, thought i was over this girl but seeing her last nite i clearly havent. She didnt pick up but i was depressed every time i saw her ( which is pathetic, harden the eff up and go and pick up or chat to other chicks which is what i should have done), found out she has been hooking up with a guy from her mates as well which i didnt feel too great about, she s been with a few since me i havent which is pretty much the main issue here. Ended up blowing a ton of money and being angry for the rest of the night. Im counting the days till she moves stores and can get some genuine closure on this crap.

 

[clivewaterhousen]

last night one of my friends came out for the first time since he got a girlfriend.

guess who tagged along, neither of them drank and they left after about half an hour.

to get over a girl i think about shit like that and how boring people in long term relationships can be, then i dont think about them any more.

 

[Gus]

last night one of my friends came out for the first time since he got a girlfriend.

guess who tagged along, neither of them drank and they left after about half an hour.

to get over a girl i think about shit like that and how boring people in long term relationships can be, then i dont think about them any more.

I was probably guilty of that many a time during the last year and a half.

No more.

I am going to study hard this week, knock off all my uni work then I am going to absolutely annihilate and launch into as much alcohol, good times, and ****s as I can.

 

[footyfreak]

I was probably guilty of that many a time during the last year and a half.

No more.

I am going to study hard this week, knock off all my uni work then I am going to absolutely annihilate and launch into as much alcohol, good times, and ****s as I can.

1. you've acknowledged you did it so but make sure it never ever ever happens again....seriously f***ed thing to do.

2. Sounds like you were a bit whipped mate. And the minute you give bitches the upper hand they will walk all over you, lose respect for you and then eventually dump your ass.

Every guy has done it but the key is to only make the mistake once!

 

[Gus]

1. you've acknowledged you did it so but make sure it never ever ever happens again....seriously f***ed thing to do.

2. Sounds like you were a bit whipped mate. And the minute you give bitches the upper hand they will walk all over you, lose respect for you and then eventually dump your ass.

Every guy has done it but the key is to only make the mistake once!

I wasn't really whipped. My girlfriend was the quiet and introverted type. Was never great in social settings. Excellent one on one but in a crowd she would shrink right back. Kind of the opposite to me, but I went with her in the hope she would grow into it and spread her wings, so to speak, because she was a real nice girl. That never happened. Oh well, life goes on.

 

[Groggyk]

made a silly decision last nite, went to this girl's best mates bday drinks thing at a bar in the city, thought i was over this girl but seeing her last nite i clearly havent. She didnt pick up but i was depressed every time i saw her ( which is pathetic, harden the eff up and go and pick up or chat to other chicks which is what i should have done), found out she has been hooking up with a guy from her mates as well which i didnt feel too great about, she s been with a few since me i havent which is pretty much the main issue here. Ended up blowing a ton of money and being angry for the rest of the night. Im counting the days till she moves stores and can get some genuine closure on this crap.

Go out and get laid immediately. I don't know the situations of your break up and I'm wondering if it was mutual or did she do the breaking? If she broke it off with you it's even more important to go out and launch into as many women as you can otherwise you will be covered in the stench of a broken heart. Women can sense this shit.ie: A guy who is getting plenty (therefore highly desirable) from a guy who is jerking off at home and wallowing in mediocrity (inadequate and undesirable). Get out there now. The longer you leave it the worse it is for you.

 

[footyfreak]

Go out and get laid immediately. I don't know the situations of your break up and I'm wondering if it was mutual or did she do the breaking? If she broke it off with you it's even more important to go out and launch into as many women as you can otherwise you will be covered in the stench of a broken heart. Women can sense this shit.ie: A guy who is getting plenty (therefore highly desirable) from a guy who is jerking off at home and wallowing in mediocrity (inadequate and undesirable). Get out there now. The longer you leave it the worse it is for you.

This!

Think i said similar earlier in the thread but it can not be said enough!!!

 

[raff23]

Go out and get laid immediately. I don't know the situations of your break up and I'm wondering if it was mutual or did she do the breaking? If she broke it off with you it's even more important to go out and launch into as many women as you can otherwise you will be covered in the stench of a broken heart. Women can sense this shit.ie: A guy who is getting plenty (therefore highly desirable) from a guy who is jerking off at home and wallowing in mediocrity (inadequate and undesirable). Get out there now. The longer you leave it the worse it is for you.

we were only dating and it was only for a couple of weeks, she broke it off saying she wasnt ready to commit (dubious more than likely a cop-out) everything you have said i couldnt agree more, staying home on weeknds isnt gonna solve the problem so heading out on the piss is the way to go.

 

[r dub 19]

Yo gus

your ex sounded like a loser.


good outcome imo.

 

[Gus]

Yo gus

your ex sounded like a loser.


good outcome imo.

If I take off the rose coloured glasses that is a pretty solid assessment. Time for me to go out and have some fun.

 

[bresker]

I swam a mile in the sea today, about half way through I decided I didn't need women.

You know what's sad? I'm 36 now and thanks to a disciplined exercise regime, my winning smile and easy-going charm I seem to be more attractive to women than when I was a tongue-tied youngster.

But I just can't be bothered any more.

 

[ommot]

I swam a mile in the sea today, about half way through I decided I didn't need women.

You know what's sad? I'm 36 now and thanks to a disciplined exercise regime, my winning smile and easy-going charm I seem to be more attractive to women than when I was a tongue-tied youngster.

But I just can't be bothered any more.

You sound like my older mate, slaying more women than his younger days now.

But raff just immerse yourself around your good friends, keep yourself busy with activities you like doing. Get pissed and root as many women as possible, while you have the chance. Who cares if you work with her, i've worked with a partner before. Just ignore the bitch, I did. Worked brilliantly because she kept getting in a huff about it, made her feel like shit. Try do the same to her if she's making you feel like shit, **** her, obviously toying with you.

 

[krusden]

i work with her and we are friends, i really shouldnt be friends with her yet because of the lingering feelings, severing all ties would alienate me from other friends at work who are friends with her, one in particular is practically her best mate. Its tricky atm, in 2 minds, either confront her about it or tread carefully and avoid alot of contact.

you deleted her number? deleted her off FBook?

just do it matey, makes life a lot easier

then hurry up and get that transfer

and never ever date a chick you work with again.

Nobody should date anyone they work with.