The Bro Code - Where do you stand

[Cruyff14]

You've still done something which is immoral which you both cannot accept or admit.

 

[hazard]

What? I don't get this. People still yearn for the fabrics of relationships, association, and intimacy – things like comfort, safety, not feeling alone, validation, and success, money, or status. This shit hasn't changed in thousands of years of humanity and won't change in the last seven years. People will always get into relationships.

I sort of think it's dumb doing it at 19 or 20. Even more so if you're the sort of lad or girl who likes going out, getting full of piss, and having fun and naturally trying to get with someone. Those years are best spent in freedom, independence, and experimentation. But if someone really good comes along, and she digs you, why wouldn't you give it a whirl? No matter if it's for three months or three years.

The OP is an obvious troll but regardless I think a lot of single people would seriously consider this. There's nothing shitter than being full of piss and alone on a couch, texting someone or scrolling through facebook, right when everyone else is getting with someone. Meanwhile – try telling me a walk home with some random chick isn't the most "hoooooo ****!" and exciting shit possible? You feel like a rockstar, or scoring a goal for the Socceroos in a World Cup finals game. Under the influence we're all likely capable of scummy shit. I think most of us wouldn't go home with a chick if we had a girlfriend, alcohol may up hedonism but it also ups angst and guilt for me. But if you haven't had a root for months and you're on holiday in Sydney, and some chick is clinging on, the notion of a boyfriend is pretty shit.

Tbh I once met a girl at a nightclub and was full of piss. We got along like a house on fire. She had a boyfriend and I tried telling her it didn't matter. I regretted that the next day, but under the haze of excitement and piss, how can you not consider these things – after all, you're not upsetting someone you care about but upsetting two people you don't know. It's human selfishness but I can see the mentality.

I've never had sex so yeah don't believe me.

Eh. Culture has changed now. Casual sex is ridiculously easy, and women aren't shamed by their friends for cheating. I've ****ed enough girls with boyfriends to not kid myself that my girl would be different.

 

[_VXV]

Don't tell her bf, he probably knows or doesn't care. Odds on he'll give you a justified flogging for fun.
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers if something is ok you know it's outside your own moral code.
**** the brocode, just be cool to yourself and don't make life harder than it has to be.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Don't tell her bf, he probably knows or doesn't care. Odds on he'll give you a justified flogging for fun.
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers if something is ok you know it's outside your own moral code.
**** the brocode, just be cool to yourself and don't make life harder than it has to be.

I'm in Adelaide she was from Melbourne. Can't say I'm overly concerned

 

[craigos]

Well if they aint murdering people they're shaggin' other peoples partners #radelaide

 

[Big Bryza]

You've still done something which is immoral which you both cannot accept or admit.

It happens way more than I think you realise.

 

[GWBogan]

Well if they aint murdering people they're shaggin' other peoples partners #radelaide

...or their relatives.

 

[Cruyff14]

It happens way more than I think you realise.

Not sure how this changes what I said.

 

[Perth gal]

...or their relatives.

I saw this interview on 60 minutes. It made me feel sick. Haven't they broken up though? Imagine being that poor child.

 

[Scotland]

'Bro code' is stupid anyway.

'Don't be a dick' code is better.

 

[Admiral Byng]

'Bro code' is stupid anyway.

'Don't be a dick' code is better.

I was just going to suggest 'do unto others as you would want them to do unto you'. Therefore, the OP has breached the basic rule of humanity. Regardless of whether or not others have done it too.

 

[Sydney Bloods]

I'm with the OP on this one, i care not one shit about any of this social taboo bullshit.
If you're a mature well adjusted adult you understand and treat your partner as a mature well adjusted adult.
You sit down and have a conversation about where you both see the relationship heading and how you would like proceed going forward.

If exclusivity of sexual relations is part of that then, it's an agreement between the two of you and that's it, it is an agreement the OP was never a part of the OP did not pledge not to **** married women or women with partners or anything else, he was not present for the conversation, he has nothing to do with that womans relationship with her long term boyfriend.

She's an adult, She made a decision to stop following the agreement she made with her partner and engage in coitus with the OP, The OP is presumably an adult and made a decision to reciprocate. she wanted to ****, he wanted to ****, So they ****ed.

that's it that's the end of it, If her partner becomes aware that the she's been getting a few shags on the side, he will as an adult have to re-evaluate the relationship and make decision as to the future of the relationship, it may involve counselling, it may involve using it as an I win button during an argument, it may include permanently excluding her from his life.

Whatever the outcome she knew there were possible negative outcomes when it comes her relationship with her boyfriend when she chose to be rogered by the OP.

 

[the fly]

I'm with the OP on this one, i care not one shit about any of this social taboo bullshit.
If you're a mature well adjusted adult you understand and treat or partner as a mature well adjusted adult.
You sit down and have a conversation about where you both see the relationship heading and how you would like proceed going forward.

If exclusivity of sexual relations is part of that then, it's an agreement between the two of you and that's it, it is an agreement the OP never pledge not to **** married women or women with partners or anything else, he was not present for the conversation, he has nothing to do with that womans relationship with her long term boyfriend.

She's an adult, She made a decision to stop following the agreement she made with her partner and engage in coitus with the OP, The OP is presumably an adult and made a decision to reciprocate. she wanted to ****, he wanted to ****, So they stuffed.

that's it that's the end of it, If her partner becomes aware that the she's been getting a few shags on the side, he will as an adult have to re-evaluate the relationship and make decision as to the future of the relationship, it may involve counselling, it may involve using it as an I win button during an argument, it may include permanently excluding her from his life.

Whatever the outcome she knew there were possible negative outcomes when it comes her relationship with her boyfriend when she chose to be rogered by the OP.

Maybe her hubby just isn't much chop in the sack.

 

[Sydney Bloods]

Maybe her hubby just isn't much chop in the sack.

For all we know the, the guy might have been open to the idea and was hiding in the roof space rubbing one out while looking through a spyhole.

 

[Gasometer]

Code is don't touch wallet.

Dont touch wife.

Can you walk his dog?

 

[Xtreme]

I like a different bro code, it's perfectly acceptaible to go after your sister's female friends

As for other bro codes I don't go after other people's partners that's just ridiculous. I even shut down the advances of one person back in high school because she had previously been with one of my best friends.

 

[Perth gal]

Why are so many people dicks to each other. Genuine question? How hard is it to be decent?

It's not.

 

[Bomberboyokay]

Wait... DavoTheDasher lives in Adelaide, ****ed the woman in Sydney, and she and her boyfriend live in Melbourne, yet he wants to meet him to talk about it? In Melbourne? How the **** would you know what his address is anyway? Try harder lazy troll.

 

[DavoTheDasher]

Wait... DavoTheDasher lives in Adelaide, stuffed the woman in Sydney, and she and her boyfriend live in Melbourne, yet he wants to meet him to talk about it? In Melbourne? How the **** would you know what his address is anyway? Try harder lazy troll.

I never said I'd meet him. I said I'd tell him. Can easily be done online and reduces the risk of me getting my head kicked in

 

[Syd]

would tell the biddy to gagf, says a lot about her if she wants to cheat

She already was trying to gagf