When a mate is bashing his girlfriend

[little graham]

There is a difference between hitting someone and bashing them. If Duritz' mate is threatened then yeah maybe a hit is okay but you don't go bashing anyone let alone a woman, let alone your girlfriend!

Please explain "battered wife syndrome". it contridicts what you're saying.

 

[Colin D'Cops]

Call the cops

 

[The Speaker]

No actual reply from Duritz? Is this a joke?

It's Duritz.

 

[edgie]

Do everything you can to get the girl friend to report it. Hate to say it but this is the 21st century, men cannot run around encouraging and inflicting violence on other man because theres a damsel in distress who will not defend herself to the full extent the law can offer her. Tell her, tell her parents, tell her friends, it is more important the victim here learns that what is happening is not acceptable and the woman basher be punished. Any stupid suggestion of bashing him won't change anything, the scum will move on and find another woman to victimise, and the girlfriend may end up in other abusive relationship again if she doesn't seek appropriate help for herself, or worse, back with the arseh*le, and that is a much bigger issue here than your "mateship"

Of course, if you happen to witness the bashing in person, then whoop his arse by all means.

 

[HirdyLannister]

She should've just cooked you the eggs

Just slap your so called "mate" around like this!

 

[CakeEater]

Do not even know why I came into this thread, let alone posted in it.

 

[King Elvis]

This thread was much funnier yesterday.

 

[Catfish Alley]

If its okay to hit a man, why is it not okay to hit a woman? can anyone answer me that?

By law, neither are ok.

 

[LosBeatles]

 

[Dan Moody]

So many things taken for granted from so little information, so many people advocate violence when advocating violence is wrong.

This really is a piss poor effort by alot of people.

If its okay to hit a man, why is it not okay to hit a woman? can anyone answer me that?

**** off you bleeding heart.
If your little head can't distinguish that there's something wrong with "bashing" a female then take your bullshit analysis elsewhere.

 

[courtjester]

...and your advice would have been?....

Advice from a good counsellor would never be 'hit him back'. It's just asking for the situation to escalate and get much worse than it already is.

A real counsellor would ascertain whether the woman wants to leave the situation, the reasons she (maybe) can't leave, or doesn't want to, and then direct her in to a woman's refuge or alternate accommodation if possible. Look in to getting an AVO if necessary by communicating with the police and possibly pressing charges against the guy.

 

[Slax]

It really requires you to get her to take some action, if she is unwilling to do anything then there isn't much you can do.

To all those who say raise it with your mate, he won't be a mate for more than about 3 seconds after you raise it and will be swiftly followed by a f*** off and mind your own business or a punch. In any domestic violence situation it requires the victim to stand up and either report it or leave. The police can't actually do anything if the victim refuse to lay charges so there hands are tied.

So try and talk to her, offer to help if she wants to either get out or to press charges, but beyond that you really can't do much. Force the issue with either party and it will not end well for you.

 

[Hap Hapablap]

you stop him and if he doesnt stop KO the campaigner.

 

[Hipster Doofus]

Poor taste Duritz. Stick to the bay

 

[Stratton_Gun]

Was Duritz srs?

 

[JUBJUB]

Was Duritz srs?

You mean people take his threads seriously ?
They're all pisstakes.Look at his history of threads started.Anyway,who honestly believes someone would be mates with Duritz ?

 

[Damon_3388]

Have no idea why women stay with physically abusive blokes TBH. If they're not married or there's not any kids involved, surely you just leave them the first time it happens? I know it's not necessarily as easy as that, and there's a lot of psychological factors involved, but yeah, I still don't get why women don't ditch the bloke right away in these situations (especially when you consider the numerous genuinely trivial reasons that relationships fail and people break up).

 

[Duritz]

It's very easy to say "go bash the bloke" or "call the cops", and it's very easy to go moral high ground, but harder in practice.

All my mates should know.

Zing!!

Pow!! Right in the kisser Alice!!





















Just kidding...

 

[the_interloper]

Do everything you can to get the girl friend to report it. Hate to say it but this is the 21st century, men cannot run around encouraging and inflicting violence on other man because theres a damsel in distress who will not defend herself to the full extent the law can offer her. Tell her, tell her parents, tell her friends, it is more important the victim here learns that what is happening is not acceptable and the woman basher be punished. Any stupid suggestion of bashing him won't change anything, the scum will move on and find another woman to victimise, and the girlfriend may end up in other abusive relationship again if she doesn't seek appropriate help for herself, or worse, back with the arseh*le, and that is a much bigger issue here than your "mateship"

Of course, if you happen to witness the bashing in person, then whoop his arse by all means.

I can't fight though, would you suggest I use a weapon?

 

[Duritz]

I can't fight though, would you suggest I use a weapon?

The "whoop his ass" theory is bullshit. If you witness it, you've got your best evidence. You don't have to play the role of the "big man come to serve a lesson", that shit is 100 years ago.

 

[the_interloper]

The "whoop his ass" theory is bullshit. If you witness it, you've got your best evidence. You don't have to play the role of the "big man come to serve a lesson", that shit is 100 years ago.

Well here's one female who wouldn't need any help:

 

[edgie]

Well here's one female who wouldn't need any help:

Nothing on Rhonda Rousey

 

[the_interloper]

Nothing on Rhonda Rousey

Rousey is hotter obviously but if Cyborg gets down to 135 she'd kick the shit out of her imo.

 

[edgie]

Rousey is hotter obviously but if Cyborg gets down to 135 she'd kick the shit out of her imo.

Rousey would catch those kicks with her smooth ass judo and take her straight to the ground

 

[Damon_3388]

Only chance Cyborg has is if they allow turkey slapping

Even then I think Ronda could take it