It's not technically gendered but ultimately women will usually take the parental leave because of feeding and/or societal norms.
Even if dudes started being stay at home dads en masse, it's still not fair that people have children and workplaces refuse to be flexible and welcoming in relation to part time work.
The 40 hour work week is already an absolute sham where just about everyone spends a lot of their time looking busy and not actually doing work, and this is just an extension of that.
I live the other life you and edgie talking about.
I chose to do it after spending 20+ years being and employee.
I do school drop, pickup and after school activities 4 days a week and earn a decent living in between.
I sort tea a fair bit as I work from a studio 10m from my house, so I’m about all the time. So I do lots of those 1950’s roles.
The idea of being an employee again might work but not in my current job, did that for years, filling out a strict time sheet of 7.6 hours a day, and lots of that was bollocks just for management.
My kids are lucky enough thanks to Grandpa to go to a decent private school, where everyday I have a laugh watching mostly mums in their gym gear swanning about whilst their lawyer/doctor husbands earn the big coin - they happily live that life, it’s very much alive.
Also, re work and juggling, it’s bloody hard, I’ll be out for a second stint from 8-midnight quite a bit, but I’d rather own my own time than live in the Henry Ford model.
My wife works a couple of jobs and it works around here well.






Interesting
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