Here's the thing I don't care if you're male or female, but if you fluff up a fundamental part of the game you're going to get crap for it (eg missing a set shot for goal directly in front something Cloke, Bruest and even Dangerfield are known for).
When people criticise players like Breust, Danger, Buddy, etc it is usually in the moment and you criticise them because you wanted them to do better. You were supporting them and it feels like they let you down for a brief moment. That is one side that comes out of a passionate supporter with the other side being the excitement when they do something well for the team.
What I gather from your points about the women's league is that you are not a supporter. It feels like you are sitting on the edge of your seat frothing for an error or for crowds to drop so you can criticise; not because you were supporting for the alternative, but because you want to say 'i told you so' when it comes to your unfavourable opinions on women's footy.
I just can't understand why some people want the women's league to fail... surely, as AFL supporters, we want it to succeed?