Plugger35
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I always found the Cottee boys to be quite cordial in my dealings with them.
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I've heard some toddlers areis anyone on here planning on going to that massive slide in the city on Sunday
No- I'm sure a couple of my kids would love to go but they're awayis anyone on here planning on going to that massive slide in the city on Sunday

is anyone on here planning on going to that massive slide in the city on Sunday
But they more like chocolate milkshake, only crunchy.I always found the Cottee boys to be quite cordial in my dealings with them.
Bloody hell!!!Gee it's not good that little boy going missing..
I think I went to school with one of them. That was his surname anyway, don't know how it was spelt. Didn't know they had a gang, the guy was a campaigner though.I think it was spelt Kottee but pronounced Coddy. Lot's a people scared of them in 80s but I thought they were ok. Over rated in the toughness stakes.
There were 4 or 5 brothers. Malaysian background. Everyone feared them but I knew 2 of them and they were ok. I think they were more legend than substance. I never saw them beating people up. They may have gone to high school at John Curtain maybe.I think I went to school with one of them. That was his surname anyway, don't know how it was spelt. Didn't know they had a gang, the guy was a campaigner though.
I think it was Michael? Does that ring a bell?There were 4 or 5 brothers. Malaysian background. Everyone feared them but I knew 2 of them and they were ok. I think they were more legend than substance. I never saw them beating people up. They may have gone to high school at John Curtain maybe.
Yup. He's one of the ones I knew. From memory there was Derek, Leslie, Michael, and Kevin. Age difference between Kevin and the oldest one was 10 or more years.I think it was Michael? Does that ring a bell?
I can totally understand that. My 3 y.o. son was playing outside with his 5 yr old sister and 7 yr old brother, when he waved goodbye to me and said he was going to see his friend. We'd been playing this on and off for a while and all he did was ride his tricycle around the back of the house to the side gate, touch the gate, then return. It was several minutes later that I realised he hadn't returned. I raced around the back- gate was open- and ran around the block looking for him.Horrible feeling for a parent.
I lost one of my boys at the Galleria for not even 10 minutes one day and I can't describe the feeling of panic.
I reckon I looked like one of those crazy parents you see at shopping malls when I found him. I slapped the crappers out of him for running off.

Maybe both parents working, sometimes longer working hours or FIFO. Perhaps people not wanting to get involved due to what they've read or heard on the news...I find a lot of neighbourhoods these days aren't as friendly as they used to be. I used to know almost every house around me when I was younger but these days people keep to themselves.

Sad thing is, these days if you are seen approaching a child who looks like they may need some help, people look at you like you are some sort of pedo. I've had it happen to me when I've approached a child I thought was lost and the mother came out of nowhere and told me to F-off.I can totally understand that. My 3 y.o. son was playing outside with his 5 yr old sister and 7 yr old brother, when he waved goodbye to me and said he was going to see his friend. We'd been playing this on and off for a while and all he did was ride his tricycle around the back of the house to the side gate, touch the gate, then return. It was several minutes later that I realised he hadn't returned. I raced around the back- gate was open- and ran around the block looking for him.
We lived in a cul de sac which was surrounded by a circle of houses, then streets radiating off that like spikes of a wheel. He had only gone a couple of hundred metres but I passed some stupid neighbours from next freaking door who said airily, "Oh yes, we've seen him. He's riding his tricycle around there" and pointed. I ran a little further around the circle and there he was, riding his little heart out in the MIDDLE OF THE ROAD!!
What would you do, if you were out having an afternoon stroll and came upon a 3 year old kid riding his trike in the middle of the freaking road with no parent in sight? Would you just MAYBE take the kid off the road and try and find his parents? MAYBE???
My message here is that if you see something unusual, like a parent-less young child wandering the streets, sometimes it's better to be thought a busybody and see the child safely home, than to find out later that the child was hit by a car, was abducted or was harmed in any way- just because you didn't want to get involved. If the child's parent gets stroppy and tells you to mind your own business, turn the other cheek and help the next child you see who needs your help. One day you may save a life and it will all be worth it.
Less friendly or just less inclined to do rank shit like dinner parties?I find a lot of neighbourhoods these days aren't as friendly as they used to be. I used to know almost every house around me when I was younger but these days people keep to themselves.
Don't ever give up trying. Some people just overreact- because of the big media beatup of pedophiles.Sad thing is, these days if you are seen approaching a child who looks like they may need some help, people look at you are some sort of pedo. I've had it happen to me when I've approached a child I thought was lost and the mother came out of nowhere and told me to F-off.