Snapchat posts, if they are what is presented, don’t look goodThere are a few points around it - like drink driving, latency period, more consumption potentially post-driving.
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Snapchat posts, if they are what is presented, don’t look goodThere are a few points around it - like drink driving, latency period, more consumption potentially post-driving.
Very keen to know where they drove to.Given she drove, whilst you can be drunk driving, I think that maybe a point to discuss in court.
And while that part should likely be kept seperate from any discussion of her being in a position to give consent, I'm pretty sure none of us are naive enough to believe it won't be used to bring confusion to the situation & potentially discredit the alleged victimGiven she drove, whilst you can be drunk driving, I think that maybe a point to discuss in court.
One of the articles mentioned they stopped in the Dan Murphys carpark where these alleged incidents took place, before she then drove them to a house and ultimately herself homeVery keen to know where they drove to.
Getting from that establishment to Newtown would merely be crossing LaTrobe.
Getting to Bell Post Hill or Leopold etc wouldn't be as simple.
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I think it's a bit of a non-issue as such, because Snapchat is basically the communication app du jour for Gen Z/Alpha.Snapchat posts, if they are what is presented, don’t look good
The law says the following:
"37G Reasonable belief (1) For the purposes of this Subdivision, whether or not a person reasonably believes that another person is consenting to an act depends on the circumstances. (2) Without limiting subsection (1), the circumstances include any steps that the person has taken to find out whether the other person consents or, in the case of an offence against section 42(1), would consent to the act.
37H Effect of intoxication on reasonable belief (1) In determining whether a person who is intoxicated has a reasonable belief at any time— (a) if the intoxication is self-induced, regard must be had to the standard of a reasonable person who is not intoxicated and who is otherwise in the same circumstances as that person at the relevant time"
For the purpose of the discussion let's presume the intoxication was self-induced (but may not have been). The question then becomes, would a reasonable person (female in this case) have had sex with the accused if [she] wasn't intoxicated?
Regardless of the legal outcome there is enough grounds here for him to be administratively dismissed under 'bringing the game into disrepute' or similar.
And I think he probably deserves it.
But we are ok with all the behavior of D. Laidley are we?Regardless of the legal outcome there is enough grounds here for him to be administratively dismissed under 'bringing the game into disrepute' or similar.
And I think he probably deserves it.
I deleted that post, apologies. A person doesn't need to be passed out or unable to speak to be too intoxicated to give consent. Just because people have sex in these circumstances 500,000 times a year and don't make a complaint doesn't mean in many circumstances it wasn't r*pe. We all know that many of these incidents aren't reported to police for various reasons, some of which are plainly obvious.Ensuring that drinks weren’t spiked etc is a key consideration, no doubt.
The other part is something I’ve never heard brought up in court before. Other than to say, this person is drunk and passed out on a couch. If I have sex with them I can’t make a judgement on if they would consent to sex if they were sober.
People have sex 500,000 times a year. Men and women, due to alcohol impairing judgement, lowering standards, etc. and they regret it the next day when the effects of alcohol wear off.
I’m at the office Xmas party. There’s a women there that clearly likes me. But she’s “not my type” (I’m being kind and not saying something mean). I have too many drinks and make the stake of sleeping with her. Obviously she should not be charged with rape due to my poor judgement when I’m drunk.
Or Ablett Snr.But we are ok with all the behavior of D. Laidley are we?
Or Ben Cousins?
I deleted that post, apologies. A person doesn't need to be passed out or unable to speak to be too intoxicated to give consent. Just because people have sex in these circumstances 500,000 times a year and don't make a complaint doesn't mean in many circumstances it wasn't r*pe. We all know that many of these incidents aren't reported to police for various reasons, some of which are plainly obvious.
Regardless of the legal outcome there is enough grounds here for him to be administratively dismissed under 'bringing the game into disrepute' or similar.
And I think he probably deserves it.
Any details? Happy for pm if you don’t want to postHmm interesting.
What I heard months ago seems to be the case.
“Friend” could be her pimp?I read a couple of the articles and the whole series of events didn't make a lot of sense to me unless you look at the relationship between the friend and the alleged victim very differently.
I read a couple of the articles and the whole series of events didn't make a lot of sense to me unless you look at the relationship between the friend and the alleged victim very differently.
[Geelong Advertiser] Ms Swadesir will not make a ruling as to if there is sufficient evidence to commit the men for trial or whether the charges should be dismissed until after she has heard the complainant’s evidence in November.
Sen-Constable Ronaldson said she had concerns about the inconsistencies in the complainant’s statement.
“I had a conversation with the complainant on two separate occasions to clarify parts of her disclosure,” she said.
The court heard the alleged victim said on dropping the men off, they added her on SnapChat and suggested “next time they could have sex”.
But neither of the accused’s Snapchat handles were associated with the complainant’s SnapChat, Sen-Constable Ronaldson said.
Cousins was banned for a year by the AFL.But we are ok with all the behavior of D. Laidley are we?
Or Ben Cousins?
Laidley crime was excessive phone callsBut we are ok with all the behavior of D. Laidley are we?
Or Ben Cousins?
Utter shitshow.So another couple of months of speculation at a minimum
And from the evidence given by the police officer today -
This sounds like a shit show for all involved. Nobody comes out of this looking good .
But....Based on the (very limited) information it seems messy and messy usually means they walk free. Interesting dilemma for cats if and when he rocks up ready for training in a few months time.