Post your "should my mate have gotten married?" stories here and discuss if marriage is a smart option in this day and age.
I believe the pussy is one of the most dangerous pieces of equipment on the planet. Some guys seem to live in a state of "if I lose this one, will I ever see another one again?"
This guy meets this chick in year 11, by 24 he's married, by 29 he's divorced, but in those years he endured some of the most torturous behavior I've ever seen:
He was allowed one room in the house for his things. While her crap decorated the entire house.
Ma and Pa, the in laws, lived about 90 mins away, they visited most weekends, staying Friday and Saturday. On the weekends when they didn't visit, her brother would bring his clan over to stay.
If he went away, when arriving back at the airport, she wouldn't bother to pick him up - 'get a taxi'.
If she went away, he had to be parked outside the terminal.
He got a list of jobs each weekend which he had to do. If not, the house walls would have to be repaired the next weekend because she'd huff and puff and blow them in.
Holidays were to be taken when the in laws took their holidays - so they could all holiday together.
She'd spend most nights on the phone, to mum, relaying every detail of their lives.
One of her tantrums revolved around him deciding to bring her a meal back from Hungry Jacks without notice. She would have 'preferred just a cheese burger' and continued to go on and on about it in the presence of a mate. Then in the end she didn't eat anything at all and slinked off to bed.
He'd usually be the butt of her jokes when out to dinner.
Her money was her money, but his money was to be jointly shared.
He'd been told many times, especially by one mate who was always blunt enough to say, even before marriage - "I ****ing hate her and I think you shouldn't marry her".
Things deteriorated and somehow he still tried to patch it up, while she continued to treat him like garbage.
Financially, I think he exited ok. No children. Her family was well off, but despite their annoying traits, realised she was being an absolute bitch and made sure she didn't somehow **** him over, knowing he would have rolled over and given the shirt off his back, if threatened.
When it officially ended he announced "it's great to be a free man after all those years of hell".
Four months later, he'd hooked up with the exact same babyish, controlling bitch, only with brown hair.
Why the hell do some guys behave in this manner? My theroy is above, but what's yours?
I believe the pussy is one of the most dangerous pieces of equipment on the planet. Some guys seem to live in a state of "if I lose this one, will I ever see another one again?"
This guy meets this chick in year 11, by 24 he's married, by 29 he's divorced, but in those years he endured some of the most torturous behavior I've ever seen:
He was allowed one room in the house for his things. While her crap decorated the entire house.
Ma and Pa, the in laws, lived about 90 mins away, they visited most weekends, staying Friday and Saturday. On the weekends when they didn't visit, her brother would bring his clan over to stay.
If he went away, when arriving back at the airport, she wouldn't bother to pick him up - 'get a taxi'.
If she went away, he had to be parked outside the terminal.
He got a list of jobs each weekend which he had to do. If not, the house walls would have to be repaired the next weekend because she'd huff and puff and blow them in.
Holidays were to be taken when the in laws took their holidays - so they could all holiday together.
She'd spend most nights on the phone, to mum, relaying every detail of their lives.
One of her tantrums revolved around him deciding to bring her a meal back from Hungry Jacks without notice. She would have 'preferred just a cheese burger' and continued to go on and on about it in the presence of a mate. Then in the end she didn't eat anything at all and slinked off to bed.
He'd usually be the butt of her jokes when out to dinner.
Her money was her money, but his money was to be jointly shared.
He'd been told many times, especially by one mate who was always blunt enough to say, even before marriage - "I ****ing hate her and I think you shouldn't marry her".
Things deteriorated and somehow he still tried to patch it up, while she continued to treat him like garbage.
Financially, I think he exited ok. No children. Her family was well off, but despite their annoying traits, realised she was being an absolute bitch and made sure she didn't somehow **** him over, knowing he would have rolled over and given the shirt off his back, if threatened.
When it officially ended he announced "it's great to be a free man after all those years of hell".
Four months later, he'd hooked up with the exact same babyish, controlling bitch, only with brown hair.
Why the hell do some guys behave in this manner? My theroy is above, but what's yours?