Mega Thread The Questions Thread - Part II

[The Dice Man]

ohhhhh you could do it literally anywhere at any time and it will be magical
I'd do it a couple of days in so you've gotten over the tireds. but can spend the rest of the trip celebrating (and getting free champagne and desserts)

Not likely. In Italy you pay to use he cutlery at restaurants. Usually around a euro per person. I've always wondered what they would do if I bought my own.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Not likely. In Italy you pay to use he cutlery at restaurants. Usually around a euro per person. I've always wondered what they would do if I bought my own.

well can spend the holiday celebrating at least

 

[Caesar]

Puglia, Italy. My first time overseas, so I'm very excited from that POV as well lol

I don't have anything extravagant planned, our goal is to have a very chilled out holiday by the Italian seaside.

In southern Italy it is a tradition for the groom to serenade the bride outside her window on the night before the wedding

So you should definitely propose by doing that

 

[Off The Couch]

Congratulations

Don’t do it at the beach unless you have a “just in case” gold detector with you

I would do it in the middle

 

[Cruyff14]

Do it when it feels right. Just don't lose the bloody ring beforehand!

 

[Gralin]

You need to drop plenty of hints that it's coming and then fake a few proposals.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

You need to drop plenty of hints that it's coming and then fake a few proposals.

My stupid brother did this to his now-wife and it got very old very quickly

 

[Gralin]

My stupid brother did this to his now-wife and it got very old very quickly

I never said I was offering helpful advice

 

[Gough]

My brother got married thrice in the 10s and reckons it's overrated.

 

[Gralin]

My brother got married thrice in the 10s and reckons it's overrated.

I did it once and wouldn't do it again.

Shit if we hadn't gotten married when we did we'd not do it now. We'd still be together just neither of us really see the point of it now

 

[Over The Post]

You need to drop plenty of hints that it's coming and then fake a few proposals.

 

[Gralin]

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It's always a Josh

 

[the_interloper]

Proposing to my partner in July over a 2 week holiday. Should I do it at the start of the holiday so we can celebrate, the end, or something inbetween?

I’d do it early in the holiday, she’ll be that rapt you’ll probably get away with murder, bags and hookers etc probably will be allowed, you’ll have a ball!

 

[Engimal v3]

When you pay rent, are you paying for the month just gone or the month ahead?

 

[Cuzz09]

We're both very much on the same page about our future luckily. She's been sending me pictures of rings she likes leading up to the holiday haha

Sounds like my GF.

I'm like '$4k sure mate'

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[Cuzz09]

When you pay rent, are you paying for the month just gone or the month ahead?

Don't you pay a certain amount upfront when you start renting?

Then you're ahead each month?

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[Engimal v3]

Don't you pay a certain amount upfront when you start renting?

Then you're ahead each month?

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Yeah, just wanted a sanity check. We moved out of a place and asked for our bond back, and the landlord said "well we didn't get your payment for this month so we assumed you wanted to use your bond". I think they're under the impression that when you pay rent, you're paying for the month just gone.

 

[MrsEddieBetts]

Yeah, just wanted a sanity check. We moved out of a place and asked for our bond back, and the landlord said "well we didn't get your payment for this month so we assumed you wanted to use your bond". I think they're under the impression that when you pay rent, you're paying for the month just gone.

Doesn't your bond go to some regulatory board though? I didn't think that went to the landlord.

 

[Engimal v3]

Doesn't your bond go to some regulatory board though? I didn't think that went to the landlord.

Not when you go through a private landlord who half arses everything haha

 

[Gralin]

Yeah, just wanted a sanity check. We moved out of a place and asked for our bond back, and the landlord said "well we didn't get your payment for this month so we assumed you wanted to use your bond". I think they're under the impression that when you pay rent, you're paying for the month just gone.

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in theory you should be paying in advance not in arrears, have you got an actual lease contract?

 

[Engimal v3]

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Ending or breaking your lease (Private rental) - Tenants Victoria

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in theory you should be paying in advance not in arrears, have you got an actual lease contract?

We did, but it lapsed and we were just paying month to month after that. That legally happens by default after a rental agreement expires.

I think this is just a case of the landlord being misinformed. Cheers for the link, might have to forward it to them

 

[Gralin]

We did, but it lapsed and we were just paying month to month after that. That legally happens by default after a rental agreement expires.

I think this is just a case of the landlord being misinformed. Cheers for the link, might have to forward it to them

going month to month wouldn't change whatever was originally done

if you've been there a long time might be hard to remember unless you have the paperwork

normally to move in you pay bond plus first rent up front to get the keys

which is like 3 months worth of rent all up unless you did something different with bond

its meant to be put into the trust and you are meant to get a receipt that its been done and not pocketed by the agent or landlord

if the bond was lodged you can apply directly to get it back as well

 

[Gralin]

if you haven't so far start putting stuff in writing Quivorir and document what is going on so you are ready if you need to go to vcat

 

[Engimal v3]

if you haven't so far start putting stuff in writing Quivorir and document what is going on so you are ready if you need to go to vcat

You heard him Quivorir, start writing me a draft

 

[Quivorir]

You heard him Quivorir, start writing me a draft

On it boss.