Im toying with the idea of telling my kids ill give them $2k each rightnow if they give up their iphones and switch to a dumbphone which can only text and call. Like my first nokiaFriend comes to dinner. At the table keeps checking his phone. Not keeping up with the conversation. When asked to put it away, says “I have to be contactable.” Then, “My daughter might be sending a message. She promised to let me know yada yada…”
Another house guest. Her first visit to the area. We took her for a drive to a very nice scenic area down the coast. Didn’t look out the car window, spent the whole time conversing with people via text “Oh I’ve got a message from my nephew!”
On another subject, I’ve thought for a while that youth crime would suddenly reduce if the kids knew their phones would be confiscated. That would be the worst punishment.