The King!
Chosen One
A lot of the stuff in footy that is perceived as tough/hard I don't rate as tough/hard at all. Going after opposition players with the intent to hurt them is cowardly. Remonstrating with opposition players with a game of shirt-front and smack talk is surface level. Starting fights with an opposition player because you have a temper and are easily riled-up is faux toughness.
I rate hardness as simply who is most prepared to hurt themselves to win a ball, contest or game.
Agree, not shirking the issue and the ball is the sole object and not deterred from it.
Mind you anyone who makes it to this level is tough at the end of the day or you couldn't get to the comp.